Is there a relationship between attitudes and behavior? Mental connection - what does it mean, how is it formed, how to break it? What is the relationship between economics and wealth.

Any meeting in life is not accidental. Each for something and for some reason is given to you. Each leaves its mark on your destiny.

According to the Law of Relations, all meetings in life are conditionally divided into nine categories according to the degree of influence on the fate of a person and the degree of approximation of connections:

1. Children (they are the closest and most important people in life);
2. Favorite;
3. Spouses;
4. Parents, brothers and sisters;
5. Relatives;
6. Friends;
7. Colleagues;
8. Acquaintances;
9. Random passers-by.

Let's start with the most distant category that affects us the most weakly, it includes people with whom we have the most minimal fateful connections.

Relationship laws

PASSERING BY

We do not give everything to the first comers to the penny and do not go to the ends of the world. With random passers-by, having only contacts that correspond to this category will make more sense. The main way of interacting with a passerby is an equal exchange, which is an indicator of our benevolent attitude towards the world.

If you need to make some decision about the person you are seeing for the first time, such as whether to provide the help you are asked for, whether to buy the things that are offered to you, listen to your feelings.

Try to understand whether a pleasant or unpleasant energy impulse comes from a person and how this impulse responds to you. For example, from those who impose their product on the street, there is often a good energy impulse (they specifically learn this), but if you listen to yourself, then a vague unpleasant sensation arises.

FAMILIAR

These are people with whom we often or not very often, but meet in life. We cannot write them down in the category of friends, because we do not feel very close to them. In general, we do not know them well enough to understand who they are to us, other than just acquaintances.

These are friends, neighbors, a permanent hairdresser, a bathhouse attendant, our children's school teachers and parents of our children's school friends. This category is the most extensive in our life. And how differently we behave in the bathhouse and at the parent meeting, so differently we build our energy relationships with different acquaintances.

All of us, the inhabitants of the Earth, are united and similar, and we have common tasks. The life of society as a whole, and, therefore, of each of us, depends on how each person lives.

Energy interaction with the category of acquaintances is the most diverse. We can perceive acquaintances as very close and pleasant people, love them more than relatives, be spiritually united with them, or we can even perceive one of them with hostility. Depending on this, we build our relationship with them.

CO-WORKERS

People connected with us on business are closer than just acquaintances. But in no case should they be confused with friends and relatives. Otherwise, business relations, both friendly and related, may suffer greatly. Not to mention that the case itself can crumble to dust. Interaction with colleagues can only go on an equal exchange.

A respectable lady, the director of a shoe store, "out of friendship" takes the daughter of her school friend to work. By a strange coincidence, the girl finds herself in a situation where she becomes the cause of huge trouble. The store manager almost gets sued. Everyone is in shock. School friend goes into the category of hated enemies. And meanwhile, only the respectable lady herself is to blame. Business relations should be built only on a business basis. But the lady did not fully understand her mistake, because the conclusion that she learned from the lesson was: do not do good to people.

FRIENDS

The fateful category of friends opens a series of close and dear people. And with them, relationships are built in a completely different way. In the three previous categories, relations were built on the basis of mutually beneficial exchanges. The relationship of friends involves selfless support, help without regard to what you get in return.

Why does fate bring us together? Why, when we meet one person among thousands of people, do we suddenly feel the kinship of our souls? Because this relationship really exists. We do not always remember and understand this, but we always feel that we are chickens from the same basket. We understand each other, we think alike, we have the same life values. We are cosmically from one basket. How and why does this happen? The question is for tomorrow.

There is an ancient truth: it is better to be deceived by friends than not to trust them all your life. If your friends deceived you, well, then you made a mistake and mistook the wrong people for your friends. Only you are to blame. Learn to differentiate categories!

RELATIVES

We did not come into this World by chance, but according to cosmic laws, which we are not given to fully comprehend. We are a part of the whole society of the planet Earth, therefore the state of the whole society as a whole depends on the state of our soul.

Directly and immediately, this is expressed in the fact that we "cleanse" the fate of our kind. That is, we are obliged (by birth) to solve the problems of our family, help relatives, accumulate the positive energy of the family, freeing subsequent generations from birth diseases and problems.

The genus into which we have come interacts with us in different ways. He is given to one as a guardian. The family protects from adversity, helps on the path of life, guides and gives strength in difficult times. So, we somehow deserve such support! Such roots must be preserved, passed on by inheritance, multiplying traditions.

The genus is given to others as a test. In overcoming generic problems, and sometimes the curses that lie on him, the soul grows stronger, hardens, gains strength and thereby cleanses the roots, because the person himself is a particle of the family. Overcoming the negative in himself, he thereby purifies the race as a whole.

However, there are people who depend very little on the fate of their kind. Apparently, because they have a very serious personal task and a difficult life purpose in their own destiny. Such people leave their parental shelter early, move far from home, quickly acquire independence and independence, and maintain very weak communication even with close relatives. They often have a difficult life path, and usually they have big complex cases ahead of them.

Unfortunately, too many people, playing on kindred feelings, are ready to morally destroy their loved ones and not even feel that they did it wrong. These are energetic "vampires", you should close yourself from them. And yet, be that as it may, if even the most distant relative turns to you with a request - do not refuse, do everything in your power. This is your family structure, your children and grandchildren will carry it, it depends on you how pure, favorable and strong roots they will get.

With relatives, an equivalent energy exchange is rarely possible. Either we use their energy, or we give them our own. Often we recycle each other's negatives. Sometimes you have to close. And all this is normal for this category of relations due to the specificity of generic energy processes.

PARENTS, BROTHER AND SISTER

The relationships that you develop with your closest relatives are the most striking indicator of your attitude to the ancestral fate. If there are several children in a family, then each of them may have their own relationship with the family and, consequently, their own indicator of connection with the family destiny.

This is how our world works, that one of the children can be the full bearer of the fate of the father, the other - the mother, and the third remains clean from these debts. Much more complex interweaving of family lines between brothers and sisters is also possible. Two daughters can carry the mother's fate, and the father passes on the pure genetic line to his grandson. Brother and sister inherit their father's problems, and the mother passes on her creative talents to her grandson. There are as many options as there are families in the world.

Favorable relations between brothers and sisters, disinterested and benevolent, are a great gift of fate and invaluable support given by heaven.

But if the relationship develops badly and even very badly, let us not forget even then that these are our brothers and sisters, given to us from above. And no matter what happens, we must humbly accept what is given to us. We will be reasonable support for our loved ones - this is what we owe them somewhere and now we are giving back.

If an alcoholic brother asks for money to drink it, our duty is not to give him everything we have, but to do everything to save him. However, not against his will. Everything that is done against the will of man is done for evil.

If there was a quarrel between sisters and brothers, forgive the offenders, we deserve these insults, maybe we are more to blame for our mutual misunderstanding of each other. Let's give in and go to reconciliation - this is working out the fate of our family. Working off, we will clear the way for our children and grandchildren.

No matter how our relationship with our parents develops, we will forgive them and ask for forgiveness for not understanding them. Whatever it is, these people are given to us by God - therefore, we deserved this and must humbly accept what is given.

SPOUSES

Marriages are made in heaven. Spouses are people who have to build their own destiny together. Dependence on a spouse is much greater than dependence on parents. Failure in marriage is often experienced much harder than a “difficult” childhood. It is perceived as the collapse of the plans and hopes of youth. Not everyone manages to find the strength to start all over again, sometimes not at a young age. Joint children continue to bind spouses even in divorce.

You have chosen a person as your spouse, and now he (or she) categorically does not suit you. But you yourself chose - so this person corresponded to something? It turns out that you chose what you yourself corresponded to at that moment! Now you need to figure out why fate brought you together. What do you have to give each other, what to teach and learn through your meeting.

Energy relationships between spouses know no boundaries. It is almost impossible to “close” from a spouse. The fate of the two grows together and becomes common. The energy of a harmonious married couple is so great that they are practically invulnerable. Alien, disharmonious influences can only interfere for a while, the energy of two displaces everything that interferes, destroys all negatives.

But if on the second day or the second year after the wedding you find a serious disharmony in your relationship with your spouse, then your task is to do everything so that they become as harmonious as possible. You can't just pick up and leave. The spouse is not a random passerby. This is a different level of relationship.

When you answer all your questions and do all the difficult mental work, you will have a feeling of emptiness. There will be no irritation, no annoyance, no resentment, you will know that you yourself are to blame for everything. Then you will become free, you will have the right to make a choice, the right to break relationships that bring no joy to anyone. But your work must be done "one hundred percent", you can not deceive yourself. The problem is solved when emotions go away and a reasonable, bright attitude to everything that happens remains.

Marriage is an experience of service to another person. This is a test of the ability to love and empathize, the ability to accept someone else's point of view, to listen to it, despite any difference in views.

How much your soul gains if you serve diligently and unselfishly, with humility and love for man. How happy people are when, having eaten a pound of salt together, they finally harmoniously grow into each other, accepting their spouse as he is, loving with all their hearts his virtues and his shortcomings. No need to think that this is a simple humility before life or fear of it. If people achieve harmony, it is always the result of a huge inner work of both.

FAVORITE

It is good when loved ones and spouses coincide in one person. It is more difficult when they are different people. Relationships with loved ones are built in much the same way as with spouses. But if marriage can be a difficult fate, love is always happiness, and it is given as a reward, it must be protected as a priceless gift.

If true love is not mutual, it gives us even higher states of soul, when we are able to wish our beloved happiness with another, with the one she loves.

There can be only one energy interaction between lovers - a gift. To give the whole world, to give yourself, to give every drop of your energy. To feel how with each new breath the priceless gift does not disappear, but only multiplies, grows, acquiring new strength.

CHILDREN

The main duty of a person living on Earth is a duty to a child. Concepts about the World, Good and Evil are usually assimilated from parental submission, they are absorbed somewhere deep, on sensations even when it is not spoken about aloud.

What way of interaction with the child you choose is a matter of your taste, character, education, but most importantly, ask yourself more often: “What do I stimulate in him with this action, with this particular word?”

You punished your child - what did you show him? An example of cruelty, the firmness of a hand that has power, or how you need to be free and take responsibility for your actions? How much sensitivity, how much subtlety a parent needs to feel what exactly responds in a small person in response to the actions and words of adults. Only the infinite energy of love for a child can help in this difficult, sometimes intuitive work of the soul.

In conclusion, we can say that such a division into categories is very conditional. One and the same person can be for us in one case a colleague, in another case - a friend, in the third - a loved one, relative, brother. It's not about labeling each individual as a "passer-by" or "the most beloved of all loved ones." The task is to understand at the moments of communication every time what is happening, what is acceptable and what is unacceptable with a given person in a given situation. published

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P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness - together we change the world! © econet

Zhanna Friske found out about her illness during pregnancy. The singer's father believed that glioblastoma, an inoperable brain tumor, could have been provoked by an IVF procedure, which, perhaps (no exact data), was done by the singer. The wife of Konstantin Khabensky, Anastasia Khabenskaya, also died from a similar diagnosis - glioblastoma, after her second birth. Today, actress Anastasia Zavorotnyuk was transferred to intensive care in critical condition. Its exact diagnosis is unknown. Her inner circle He speaks that Anastasia was diagnosed with cancer. Some believe that the disease was provoked by the IVF procedure, which the artist could resort to, wanting to get pregnant from her husband, 48-year-old Peter Chernyshev.

However, doctors do not confirm the relationship between glioblastoma and IVF.

obstetrician-gynecologist

“Reproductive technologies have been used in the world for more than 40 years. During this time, scientists have not been able to prove a direct and stable connection between IVF and subsequent oncological diseases, including hormone-dependent tumors, says Kamil Bakhtiyarov, head of the Center for Innovative Gynecology, professor, doctor of medical sciences, consultant of the Leukemia Foundation. - Another question: pregnancy is a strong hormonal load, especially if a woman has chronic diseases. It can stimulate processes that have already begun in the body. However, this has nothing to do with whether the pregnancy happened naturally or with the help of reproductive technologies.” The doctor's words are backed up by a number of studies, including a 2018 British study of 250,000 women, which showed that patients who underwent assisted reproduction had a slightly higher risk of non-invasive breast cancer and invasive and borderline ovarian cancer. However, scientists emphasize that the epidemiological picture is very contradictory. Scientists call the possible cause of cancer development not at all hormone therapy, but infertility of patients. No consistent pattern was found between IVF and the development of melanoma.

gynecologist-reproductologist of the network of centers of reproduction and genetics "Nova Clinic"

“Often in the media and in various forums you can read that IVF provokes the development of cancer. This statement is not true, - says Zorina Irina Vadimovna, a gynecologist-reproductologist of the Nova Clinic network of reproduction and genetics centers. - Over the decades that have passed since the introduction of the method of in vitro fertilization into widespread practice, experts have carefully monitored any possible complications that may arise as a result of its use. The conclusions are unequivocal: IVF does not provoke cancer.

But why was this myth born? The fact is that the use of hormonal drugs to stimulate ovulation (due to which several eggs mature in the ovaries at once) can accelerate the growth of an existing malignant tumor. To exclude such a development of events, a woman must undergo a thorough examination before entering the IVF program. It must be said that often an oncological disease, which the patient did not even know about, is diagnosed just at this stage.

Many women take hormonal drugs (oral contraceptives) for many years. They prescribe them to themselves completely independently, without consulting a doctor and without undergoing the necessary preliminary examination. In this case, the effect of hormonal drugs on the body is much longer than during ovarian stimulation during IVF, but for some reason this fact does not bother anyone.

Prescribed ovarian stimulation drugs are hormones similar to your own. When they are used, there is a temporary increase in hormonal levels, which returns to normal after the end of stimulation.

reproductive specialist, chief physician of the REMEDI clinic

“To date, there are a significant number of retrospective studies and observational studies (with a follow-up depth of 20-30 years) proving that ovulation stimulation, including for the IVF procedure, does not increase the risk of developing cancer. These studies, in particular, are published on the website of the American Association for Reproductive Medicine.

Thus, we can state that hormone therapy for the treatment of infertility does not increase the risk of developing oncological diseases, including breast, ovarian, endometrial, thyroid, and intestinal cancers. However, patients with infertility, due to the nature of their health in general, have an increased risk of developing breast and endometrial cancer. That is why, before the ovulation induction procedure, a serious medical examination is carried out, aimed at identifying the initial stage of oncological diseases or a predisposition to them. Nevertheless, I would like to note that the hormonal load in preparation for IVF is much less and shorter in time than during childbearing.

Do a person's attitudes affect his behavior? Is it possible, knowing the presence of a particular attitude, to predict the actions of a person? Common sense gives us an affirmative answer. It is likely that if we rated a person's attitude towards environmental protection as positive, then we can expect that this person will not throw away empty bottles and old newspapers, but hand them in for recycling. But will this prediction be correct? It turns out that this is not necessary at all.

We know many examples when people's behavior does not correspond to their attitudes. Thus, our newspapers report cases when Russian border guards in the Far East, who are supposed to resist illegal fishing, sometimes engage in poaching themselves. And sometimes you can see how two people who met exchange pleasantries, although in fact they hate each other.

The degree of influence of attitudes on behavior has been the subject of research discussions since the 1930s. last century. These discussions were initiated by the classic work of the American sociologist R. La Piere (La Piere, 1934). The author of the study, a white American professor, traveled around the United States by car for three months with two Chinese - a young married couple. This trio crossed the country twice up and down the west coast. Travelers stayed at 66 hotels and visited 184 restaurants. Although there was strong prejudice against Asians in the United States at the time, especially on the West Coast, they were refused service in only one case. Some time later, La Pierre sent letters to each of these establishments, asking if they could accept Chinese as their clients. Among the 128 responses received, 92% were negative. La Pierre and many other authors have interpreted these data as reflecting a large discrepancy between behavior and attitudes.

However, in later years a much greater correspondence between attitudes and behaviors was sometimes found (Taylor et al., 1994). Thus, in one of the American studies, data from large-scale polls conducted during four presidential election campaigns were analyzed. Voters' attitudes towards their candidates, as found in pre-election interviews, were closely related to the actual voting behavior of these voters: 85% of those surveyed demonstrated a match between attitude and behavior, despite the fact that they were interviewed about a month before election day. Moreover, almost all voters who did not show such conformity were characterized by weak attitudes.

It is generally accepted that there are significant variations in the correspondence of people's attitudes to their behavior. Recently, a number of researchers have made attempts to determine the conditions that would contribute to a varying degree of correspondence between attitudes and behavior. So, an important condition for this correspondence is that this or that attitude of the personality is sufficiently strong and clear. Inconsistency most often refers to weak or ambivalent attitudes. As already mentioned, the discrepancy between the voters' attitudes and their real choice stemmed from the weak attitudes of these people. Similarly, one may fail to find behavioral conformity to attitudes if the affective and cognitive components of attitude conflict.

According to the available data, anything that can reinforce any attitude should lead to an increase in the correspondence between attitude and behavior. Another means of strengthening attitudes is to practice them repeatedly. It has been found that the correspondence between attitudes and behavior is greater when people think about their attitudes and express them.

The importance of plant stability should also be noted. Obviously, settings are subject to change over time. Certain attitudes that a person held a few years or months ago, apparently, will not influence his behavior to the same extent as the current attitudes. Therefore, the correspondence between attitudes and behavior should be greatest when attitudes are measured and behavior is observed at about the same time.

Another important circumstance in considering this issue is the relevance of attitudes to observed behavior. In other words, we are talking about the extent to which the attitudes expressed by people are related to their specific behavior. Thus, it is believed that La Pierre's survey of hotel and restaurant owners about their feelings towards the Chinese in general was clearly not related to the question of the owners' attitudes towards this particular couple. In general, human behavior tends to be more in line with attitudes that are extremely specific rather than belonging to a broad class of possible behaviors.

A similar explanation of the results obtained by La Pierre is given by V.A. Poisons from the point of view of dispositional regulation of behavior. The discrepancy between the attitude expressed by the owners of hotels and restaurants and their subsequent actions is explained by the fact that the leading role in the regulation of behavior belonged to the disposition of a different level. Thus, the value orientation towards the prestige of the institution determined the negative response regarding the service to the Chinese. But the same orientation presupposes the observance of the accepted service rules if the client has already appeared in the establishment (Yadov, 1975).

In the latter case, what American authors call "situational pressure" appears (Taylor et al., 1994). It is known that any behavior of a person can be influenced both by his attitudes and by the situation. When the pressure of the situation is strong, attitudes do not condition behavior as much as when the pressure is relatively weak. This is easy to see in La Pier's study. Well-dressed respectable people who show up at the door of a hotel or restaurant find it difficult to refuse service, despite feelings of prejudice against this ethnic group. External pressure is stronger, as the rules for accepting clients require that appropriate service be provided to anyone who needs it and can pay for it.

One of the attempts to analyze the influence of attitudes on behavior is A. Eizen's theory of planned behavior (Ajzen, 1985). In accordance with this theory, this or that behavior is carried out on the basis of certain considerations - that people think about the consequences of their actions, and they make deliberate decisions in order to achieve the intended results, while avoiding some undesirable consequences. So, here the intention of a person acts as a kind of key that precedes his behavior. It is the behavioral intention, not the attitude itself, that predicts subsequent behavior. According to this theory, three main components - attitude towards certain behavior, subjective norms and perceived control, combined together, cause any behavioral intention. Proponents of this approach believe that almost any behavior and the corresponding behavioral intention can be explained on this basis, from the decision to use birth control to the choice of a particular toothpaste (Deaux et al., 1993).

Based on the theory under consideration, an individual's attitude towards a certain behavior is the product of two factors: an assumption about the consequences of this specific behavior and an assessment of the possible results. Each of these factors varies in different people, influencing their behavior. As an example, consider a student's decision to spend an extra eight hours a week on a foreign language class. Two different people may agree on the likely outcomes of this behavior—higher academic grades and less time with friends—but these people may differ in their assessment of these outcomes. Thus, any student may evaluate his academic progress as much more meaningful to him than the time spent with friends. Consequently, his attitude towards extracurricular activities will be more positive than that of another student who considers friendships to be very important compared to certain academic marks.

The second component of the model under consideration is subjective norms that introduce a social element. These are the individual's assumptions about what he should do from the point of view of other people, and the strength of his motivation to live up to these expectations. The two students in our example may consider the expectations of their parents, friends, perhaps, and favorite teacher as they decide whether to spend more time studying. At the same time, one student may be sure that his parents will approve of his choice in favor of teaching, and will be motivated to meet their expectations, while another student may have exactly the same understanding of the position of his parents, but not care about how to meet their wishes. Similarly, the expectations of friends and relatives may influence some people more than others.

The third component of the Eisen model is perceived behavioral control. It implies that some activities are under more control than others. More important, however, Eisen suggests, is the individual's opinion of this control. Let's look at the student example again. The former, while he may place great value on high grades and be motivated to meet parental expectations, is less likely to turn to additional learning if he believes that his academic performance is poorly controlled.

So, these three factors - attitude towards a certain behavior, subjective norms and perceived control, combined together, determine the intention of a person to act in one way or another. As already noted, these factors vary in different cases. In general, the theory of planned behavior can be useful in predicting behavior in many cases. This is especially true of behavior that is really thought out and planned.

On the other hand, the emergence of a spontaneous attitude does not involve reflection, and sometimes the relationship between attitude and behavior is also spontaneous. Currently, researchers are actively looking into the study of the relationship between attitude and behavior, considering various factors and circumstances that accompany this.

The well-known form of a certificate for weapons was canceled, and instead of its usual format, new forms were introduced in the year. Where can I get a weapon license? Obtaining a certificate for a weapon has now become a more troublesome and time-consuming procedure.

A certificate for a new type of weapon consists of two documents. The first of them - a certificate of O / y - is needed to obtain or renew a license and is, in fact, confirmation that the person who picks up a weapon is adequate, stress-resistant, not prone to aggression, so he will not shoot passers-by from it due to bad. Where can I get a weapon license?

Validity period of the medical certificate. Grounds for refusing to issue a weapon certificate. The cost of a certificate for a weapon. New mandatory examinations for obtaining a medical certificate for weapons. Note that the form certificate is valid for a year from the moment it was issued to you.

The changes are that new certificates-conclusions will be issued only according to new, approved forms, but in no case will anyone cancel the effect of old certificates. Grounds for refusing to issue a weapon certificate - is it possible to re-pass the examination or challenge the refusal?

Refusal to issue documents may be for the following reasons: You are under 18 years of age. List of clinics where you can officially get a medical certificate f 1 for weapons in Moscow. Cost reference, customer reviews. Free consultation on the issuance of a certificate. 14 clinics providing the service Medical certificate form in Moscow (officially).

Help F No. for obtaining a license to purchase weapons. For carrying and storing weapons / security activities (). Medical certificate A form in the form approved by the Order of the Ministry of Health of the Russian Federation No. of the city is issued if you wish to obtain a license to carry and use weapons. Help f.

will be required not only for people who purchase weapons as self-defense, but also for security guards (employees of security companies) and hunters.

Who can get a gun license? In accordance with the Law of the Russian Federation “On Weapons” No. FZ dated, the following can pass a weapons medical examination and issue a medical certificate for weapons in the form: citizens of the Russian Federation who have reached the age of 21; citizens of the Russian Federation under the age of 21, undergoing military service.

Therefore, where to get a medical certificate for a weapon, in a polyclinic or a commercial medical center, everyone decides for himself. The medical examination for the renewal of a weapons permit involves the passage of the same specialists as at the initial stage.

A medical certificate for weapons with a narcologist and a psychiatrist is supplemented by an HTI certificate in a year. You will need a medical certificate form for security guards after a year when passing a periodic check. A sample form of a weapon certificate must be present on information stands in medical centers that issue such a document.

For which diseases a certificate is not issued. Algorithm for obtaining a medical certificate for a weapon in the form of O / y. To obtain a certificate for carrying and storing weapons, you must: Pass urine for CTI (chemical-toxicological research). This can be done at the ExpressMedService medical centers. Therefore, if you want to get a medical certificate, which is the basis for obtaining a weapon permit in St. Petersburg, please contact our centers.

Helpful information. Necessary documents for the weapons medical board. Clinics offering the service Certificate for weapons (form No. 46,). Clinic rating. Registration in clinics. Preventive examinations: Medical documentation: Passing a medical examination to obtain a certificate for the right to carry weapons (O / y).

Medline Service. Show 8 more branches of this clinic. Where can I get the document. When issuing a medical certificate, it is important to know that forgery and any violation of the rules for filling it out, including the use of a form not intended for this, entails punishment from law enforcement agencies.

Therefore, it is necessary to approach with all responsibility the choice of a medical institution that will deal with the execution of the document. As a rule, this issue is dealt with by the polyclinic at the place of residence or medical centers that are licensed to conduct a survey for issuing a permit for the storage of weapons. What is the validity period of

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