Development of the lesson “Politeness lesson. Politeness lesson in elementary school Polite lesson
Lesson 1
SO THAT YOU ALWAYS HAVE A LOT
FRIENDS
Never be rude to your comrades. Don't use offensive words. Not
give them nicknames.
Don't try to hit or push someone to get into a comfortable position.
you (for example, in the game) have a place. Don't forget to say hello to everyone
friends. Even with those of them who are very small.
You can and should be friends with little kids, big kids, and
boys and girls.
If you are offended by your friend for something, try to forget as soon as possible
and forgive him for your offense. Do not get mad! If your friend asks you what
some toy or book, don’t refuse him. Do not be greedy! If you're on your own
borrowed a book or toy from a friend, handle these things carefully and not
forget to return them on time (when your friend asked or when you yourself
promised).
Lesson 2
TO DEVELOP WILL AND CHARACTER
The word “honesty” and “honor” are similar to the word “purity”. Isn't it true, my
little friend?
We call an honest person someone who has not “dirty” himself
pretense, cowardice and lies. An honest person is one who is truthful and
brave Someone who values friendship. Who respects and loves their loved ones and
other acquaintances and even strangers.
A person who always tries to behave politely and honestly has
Over time, a strong will and strong character are developed. About this one
They say:
This man knows how to educate himself.
If you, my little friend, also want to cultivate the will and
character, here are some tips for you:
Be disciplined and careful. Don't waste it on whims and
stupid things have their time.
Be sure to do exercises in the morning to become strong and agile. (Suddenly
will you ever
will you need to protect a girl or a weak child from a bully?)
Behave delicately and kindly with everyone you know and don’t know.
people.
Always give up your seat on public transport to people older than you. Or
whom you see are very tired and sick. Never deceive your people
friends and adults.
Most often, cowardly and poorly educated people lie and pretend. Not
be like them!
Lesson 3
FOREST LESSONS IN POLITENESS
A well-mannered person does not break branches of trees and bushes, does not tear up forest
colors. Grass cover
retains moisture and provides shelter for a huge number of beneficial insects and
small animals. Do not knock down unfamiliar or even known poisonous
mushrooms. Many of them are medicine for forest inhabitants. Shouldn't be caught
and bring forest animals, insects and birds into the house, for them our
"fun" often ends in illness, torture and death. Is not
toys.
Do not destroy anthills accidentally or on purpose! Otherwise the ants won't have time
repair your little house before frost. And they will die! And of course
a polite person who comes to rest in a forest or meadow will not leave behind
dump yourself.
HOW TO BEHAVIOR AT THE TABLE
Lesson 4
Don't put your elbows on the table, only your hands.
Place appetizers and salads from large dishes not with the spoons you eat yourself, but with the ones you eat.
what's on the platter.
Bring a spoon or fork with food to your slightly bowed head, but never bend over
to the plate.
Be sure to chew your food with your lips closed, neither quickly nor slowly, nor
slurp and don't
talk with your mouth full.
Put on your plate exactly as much as you eat.
When the meal is finished, place the knife and fork on the plate parallel to each other on the right.
TIPS FOR EATERS.
Eat this with a fork: cutlets, rolls, goulash, beef stroganoff, salads, pates, omelettes,
rice, pasta, dumplings, vegetable side dishes, potatoes.
Eat this with a knife and fork: roasts, chops, poultry.
Eat this with a spoon: porridge, cottage cheese, soup, puree.
They take the bread with their hand, do not bite off a piece, but break off pieces and put them in the mouth.
Cake, pastry and other sweets with cream do not need to be handled. They are eaten
with a small spoon.
Well, now you and I need to decide
TASK FOR THE HOUSEWIFE.
Given: oilcloth, tablecloth, napkins, plates (deep and shallow), cups, glasses,
forks, knives, spoons (table, dessert, tea), flowers and flower vases.
Required: arrange everything so that it is beautiful, correct, and convenient.
Solution:
1. Place oilcloth on the surface of the table, then a tablecloth.
2. Mentally draw a straight line at a distance of 12 cm from the edge, along it exactly
set out the plates
each against the chair. If the table is for dinner, place a deep one on a shallow plate.
3. Place the knives to the right of the plates with the blade facing them, the forks to the left with the tip up.
Spoons
Place the soup and dessert dishes behind the plates parallel to the edge of the table with the handles to the right.
4. For water or juice, place glasses on the right behind the appliances. Napkins on plates. Not
forget about
spoons, knives, forks for appetizers, salads, butter. Flowers in vases will decorate
festive
table.
Take your seats, dear guests!
Lesson 5
POLITE GAMES
Rules of the game
1. Follow the rules of the game, do not try to win and achieve championship
dishonestly.
2. Don't be happy when others lose.
3. It’s a shame when you lose, but don’t lose heart and don’t be angry at anyone.
the winner, nor the one by whose
fault, perhaps the defeat occurred.
Lesson 6
WE WELCOME GUESTS
If you are the owner.
Any person who crosses the threshold of your home is a guest,
which should be accepted
kindly and cordially.
If a guest comes in for more than a few minutes, you should offer
him to take off his coat. Moreover, you must help him hang his coat on
hanger
Try to make the guest quickly get used to it and feel at home.
Invite him to sit
to the most convenient place.
Engage the guest in conversation, let the guest choose the topic of conversation.
Don't leave your guest alone for a long time. And if you need it for a while
take a break for sure
apologize to him.
If a guest has stayed too long and is not going to leave, and you have urgent matters, you
must find very
a tactful way to let him know this.
Proverbs and sayings.
Don’t feel sorry for your guest, but be kinder to her.
In someone else's house, do not be noticeable, but be friendly.
Do not be afraid of a guest who is sitting, but be afraid of a guest who is standing.
There is no truth in the legs.
Guests are welcomed twice: welcoming and seeing off.
The owner is cheerful, the guests are joyful.
The welcome guest does not wait for the call.
Frequent feasts will wear out the half-hearted people.
The guest often takes up his hat and does not leave soon.
Do not treat the guest after him.
An uninvited guest is worse than a Tatar.
Lesson 7
WE'RE GOING TO VISIT
If you are a guest
Know that an unexpected visit almost always causes anxiety.
Therefore it is acceptable
only in case of emergency.
If you knocked twice or rang the doorbell and they didn’t open it for you, you should
don't "break down" the door,
and calmly leave without checking whether the owners are actually not at home.
While visiting, it is not nice to evaluate an apartment or make critical
comments.
Don’t ask what it cost and where it was bought, don’t take it off the shelves
decorations to view them from all sides.
What should the gift be?
The gift must have a specific purpose. Don't give your grandmother roller skates
a calculator for the baby, a rattle for dad, a men's tie for mom, and
grandfather a doll. Such gifts are needed like a fish needs an umbrella.
The main thing is that the gift brings joy. You need to show that you remember
man, do you consider
his taste, hobbies. By giving a gift, you bring joy to another, not
showing off to everyone
with your generosity.
Don't empty your parents' wallet, it's better to come up with something
something original
make it, draw it.
The presentation of a gift is accompanied by good wishes and a smile.
And the one who receives the gift must remember that “a gift horse in the mouth
they don’t look”, that is
you should always express gratitude, even if the gift did not go according to
taste.
Lesson 8
HOW TO BE KNOWN AS AN UNPLEASANT PERSON
Look at yourself from the outside. What impression do you make? Don't you have
Do you have any bad habits that irritate others?
Do you bite your nails? Are you sniffling?
Are you talking too loudly?
Do you wave your arms so that your interlocutors have difficulty
do they dodge so as not to be hit?
Do you rock in your chair?
Do you use your pinky nail as a toothpick?
Do you clean your shoes on your trouser legs?
Do you slam the door?
If you do this, it means you have quite a few bad habits. AND
you don't have to worry,
people will definitely say after you: “What an unpleasant person!”
Lesson 9
EDUCATED PEDESTRIAN
1. Cross the street via underground passages or special pedestrian crossings
paths.
2. In this case, you need to look at the traffic light. When the light is yellow or red, cross the street
it is forbidden. And if the light is green, look to your left... if there's nothing moving there
transport, boldly walk to the middle of the street. Stop there and look to the right. If this
since there are no cars, move on... But still be careful, suddenly a car appears, walking
on a turn, or an ambulance with a siren and flashing lights.
Traffic lights also have their own signals for pedestrians:
"red man" wait, "green man" go.
3. When there is no crossing on the road, you can cross it under two conditions:
if the road is clearly visible in both directions,
if the distance between the pedestrian and the approaching car is not less than the distance
between three lamp posts. (By the time the car travels this distance, you will have time to cross
the road.)
4. A stationary tram should be walked around from the front. (If you go around it from behind, you can get hit
oncoming tram or other transport.) Walk around the bus and trolleybus from behind. (If
go around in front, because of them you cannot see the cars driving behind them.)
5. You cannot play on the roadway or even on the sidewalk. No football, volleyball,
badminton, tennis, no skateboards, roller skates or bicycles! Just play
in courtyards, in parks, on boulevards, where there is no risk of encountering cars.
6. Outside populated areas, pedestrians must walk along the side of the road or the edge of the roadway towards
traffic movement. Under no circumstances should you run out onto the road or in the city, but it is especially important
follow this rule when crossing the highway outside the city, because here cars are racing much faster!
7. When crossing the railway, be especially careful! Although the train is easier to spot from afar than
car, but it often goes faster. And the driver should quickly brake and stop
the huge composition is almost impossible.
8. Winter is approaching, it gets dark early. If you don't already have a reflector, ask your dad or mom
buy it and attach it to your jacket or school backpack. Then, illuminated by the headlights
passing car, even in the dark you will be clearly visible.
Lesson 10
EXERCISES FOR GOOD WIZARDS
I think that you, my friend, are certainly not afraid of evil wizards. Why be afraid of them when each
Do girls and every boy know that fairy tales end well? By the way, wizards
They live not only in fairy tales! Every person who is kind, who honestly, diligently, with love
does his job, a little bit like a wizard. Honestly fabulous! Isn't there magic on
in a vacant lot, on a bare spot, to build a beautiful house in a few months?
What about curing a sick person? Or... Grow a garden? How about inventing and making a truck?
How about baking a sweet, delicious cake? Yeah... In this world there are such incredible wizards around us
not so little! Of course, you really want to learn a lot from
your familiar wizards. After all, you yourself don’t yet know how to create miracles. However... Here,
It seems I'm wrong. Although you are very young, there is not much to do on earth for you. All
depends only on your desires and efforts. And I, of course, believe that you will not be lazy and
try to perform at least one good miracle every day.
Exercises for good wizards.
Exercise 1.
Ask your mother or grandmother to give you a small basin. Pour some warm water into it. Find
a rag that mom usually uses to clean the floor. Dip it in a bowl of water. Then gently squeeze it out. AND
Carefully wipe the kitchen floor with a damp cloth. In this case, the rag must be dipped into
water and squeeze out. Do not leave corners and part of the floor under the table and chairs unwashed. Having finished it
case, please do not forget to wring out and hang the rag to dry.
Exercise 2.
Together with your dad or older brother (or maybe with your sister or mom), collect dry and
enough thick rods. Make sticks of them of approximately the same length. Of these
using sticks, build a fence around an anthill you know, now it will be clearly visible
to all passersby. And no one will accidentally step on it and destroy the ant mansion.
Exercise 3.
Help your younger brother or sister get dressed, put on shoes, take a walk with him, feed him porridge.
Exercise 4.
Make feeders for birds and squirrels for the winter. And don’t forget to bring and pour food into them.
Lesson 11
SAFETY RULES ON ICE
Always pay attention to what color the ice is. If greenish and bluish
this means its thickness
about 1012 cm. This one will withstand everything. If the ice is matte pale, with
yellowish, then he is very
fragile. You can't walk here, you might fall through. Remember it's dangerous
move on ice during a thaw or when it is covered with snow
snowdrifts. If you need to cross a river on ice, but there is no path on it
paths, to be careful, check the ice first, and hit it
with a stick. If water appears after the impact, come back, this is the place you need
go around.
What if the ice cracked, fell under your feet and you were in an ice hole? Not
give in to panic, don’t wave your arms. You have to get out onto the ice in that direction
from where you were coming, carefully crawl out, spreading your arms wide, without leaning on.
Don't try to stand on the edge of the ice. Roll away from the hole and only
get to your feet on the shore. Run faster to stay warm and quickly
get to a warm place. And if you saw a man who had fallen under
ice? Scream louder, call for help. You can’t approach the hole, only
crawl, putting something like a board or skis under you. No way
In this case, do not give your hand to a drowning person - you will end up in the water together. Necessary
hand him a board, a ski pole, a rope. Long can be used
scarf or outerwear, jacket or coat. A man caught in
wormwood, freezes, his clothes get wet and sink to the bottom, he quickly loses
strength. Therefore, the rescuer must act, although carefully, but boldly
and decisively.
Lesson 12
RULES OF FRIENDSHIP
Help a friend: if you know how to do something, teach him too; if comrade
got into trouble, help him as much as you can.
Share with your friends: if you have interesting toys, books,
share with other guys, with those who don’t have them.
Play and work with friends so as not to take all the best for yourself.
Stop your friend if he is doing something bad.
If a friend is wrong about something, tell him about it.
Don't quarrel with your friends; try to work and play with them amicably, don’t argue
for nothing; don’t be arrogant if you’re good at something; Not
envy your comrades - you should rejoice at their successes; if you acted badly, no
be embarrassed to admit it and correct yourself.
Know how to accept help, advice and comments from other guys.
Lesson 13
FEAST OF COLORS
Try to create and draw a festive city yourself.
Let everyone draw a house, tower or palace.
Carefully cut out these drawings and paste them onto one of the largest
a sheet of paper...So you get a city.
Let everyone draw a tree or flower.
Cut them out and paste them onto the same sheet. And in your fabulous city
Trees and flowers will grow according to your wishes.
Now draw all sorts of different animals and birds, cut them out and glue them
same way. So in your fairy-tale city there will be inhabitants, as in
the most real, most magical fairy tale.
Or you can draw a large flower, for example, a tsvetiksemitsvetik.
Color the petals, write on the reverse side of each petal
kind words and wishes. And then give it to your mom.
Really, it turned out great?
Lesson 14
WELCOME RULES
Just in case, let me remind you that the younger ones greet the older ones. Although
a well-mannered person does not wait to be greeted, but does it
yourself, don’t let yourself get ahead of yourself.
If those you want to say hello to are far from you at the other end
in the hall, for example, don’t wave your arms and don’t deafen everyone with your screams.
When you meet your friends' eyes, nod to them friendly. This
will be sufficient.
Noisy and stormy exclamations like “who do I see”, “finally”, “where are you
disappeared" cannot be called greetings.
If you meet the same person more than once during the day,
greet him every time, but in a different form with a nod of the head, a smile,
with a slight wave of the hand, a wish
Bon appetit (during the lunch meeting).
Lesson 15
HOW TO INTRODUCE AND REPRESENT
OTHERS
This is not easy for everyone to imagine. But communication without acquaintance
impossible. So the embarrassment will have to be overcome. And in order not to be
in an awkward position, keep in mind that the younger ones introduce themselves to the older ones and that
women (no matter what age they are) are not the first to men
introduce themselves. An exception can be made only for the elderly
men.
When introducing yourself, look your interlocutor in the eyes and smile. To the question "how
call you" the correct answer would be "my name is... (not to call).
If you came to visit later than others and saw many people among those invited
people you don't know, go up to the owners and say hello to them. Hosts
They will introduce you themselves.
When introducing guests, start with the kids, then the elders and peers.
Say names calmly and clearly. You shouldn’t add: “this is the one
the most”, “I told you about her yesterday”... I hope you understand why?
Lesson 16
HOW TO TALK POLITELY
PHONE
First of all, you must be polite and, if possible, brief. It's better by phone
talk, but you can talk when you meet.
When you hear the call, hurry up to pick up the phone, and when you say “Hello”, don’t forget to answer the greeting.
If you were asked to invite someone from home to the phone, your curiosity “who
this?", "Why do you need it?" - will be unceremonious. Everything that is considered necessary,
the caller will tell himself. But to ask whether something should be conveyed in the event that the one to whom
they call, you’re not at home, it would be both appropriate and kind of you.
If you are busy, say and apologize that you will call back. But just don't forget to do it!
If you have the wrong number, answer politely, don’t get angry, because this has happened to you too.
Do not dial a phone number from memory unless you are sure you remember it correctly. And what if
I made a mistake, under no circumstances ask where you ended up and what phone number it was. Saying:
“Sorry, I made a mistake,” hang up.
When starting a conversation, greet and introduce yourself.
You will do the right thing if you ask whether you distracted from business with your call and whether they can now
talk to you.
A telephone conversation is in some way an uninvited visit. It may turn out that yours
This is not the first and not the last call for someone. Therefore, do not forget: well-mannered people never
abuse telephone conversations and call only when necessary.
Lesson 17
POLITE CALLER
Be kind and respectful to those you speak to, and therefore
remember that expressions such as “it’s useless to talk to you”, “well
How can you not understand?”, “I’ve never met such stupid people”, “Is this for you?
don’t understand,” “you, of course, don’t know,” a polite person does not use.
Remember that your listener also has something to say. Give him a chance too
engage in conversation.
Be attentive to your interlocutor. Be able to notice that he is in a hurry, before
how he himself will tell you about it. Change the topic of conversation in time if she doesn't
interesting or unpleasant to the listener.
Don't discuss other people's behavior, dressing style, or reasons.
you will be known as a “gossipist” (“gossipist”).
Don't be chatty. A long conversation is tiring for the listener.
Do not use words in conversation whose meaning is not entirely clear to you, but
also those whose meaning your interlocutor may not know.
Don't gesticulate (don't wave your arms). If you express yourself accurately and
Clearly, they will understand you without difficulty.
Lesson 18
POLITE LISTENER
If you are contacted and you are busy at this time, leave all your business and
look at the interlocutor, express your readiness to participate in the conversation.
Listen carefully and until the end. Do not interrupt. Don't tell me
to the speaker, do not finish his sentences for him, do not do it during the conversation
comments. Keep in mind that sometimes a person just needs to speak out.
If there are several people in your conversation, do not react to the speech,
which is not addressed to you.
In your presence they made a tactlessness, abruptly and irritably
started talking. Try to end the conversation immediately, but do it without
call.
Do they make fun of or call others names? Change the conversation to other topics.
Try to listen to your interlocutor carefully and sympathetically, so that he
it felt like you were talking to him.
Lesson 19
COMMUNICATION RULES
When you leave your home (small world) into the big world (on
street, to a cultural institution...), where there are a lot of people, it is necessary
follow certain rules of communication. For example, it should not be allowed
the following situations occur:
an elderly man stands on a tram, having difficulty maintaining his balance, and
Young people sit quietly next to them, and it doesn’t even occur to them
give way to him;
a visitor to a restaurant, cafe, licks gravy from a knife;
being in society, you forget yourself and pick your teeth with a match;
you bore your guests with commentary on a TV program, not at all
caring whether they are interested in it;
you watch indifferently as your mother bends under the weight
bags, returns home.
By doing this, you show disrespect for others and
It’s in vain to expect them to respect you. The one who thinks is wrong
that the rules of good manners are necessary only when he is wearing a beautiful
clothes and he came to visit or to a concert, but in everyday
life doesn’t need them, you can take them off along with your outfit and leave them on
hanger for the time being. Be tactful, attentive and pleasant in
communication should not only be among strangers, it is necessary in
first of all at home, with family, at school.
Lesson 20
RULES OF CONDUCT IN PUBLIC
TRANSPORT
When entering public transport, do not push everyone away with your elbows, let women pass,
elderly people and girls (if you are a boy) go ahead, help them climb into the salon. Not
stop at the entrance (unless you get off at the next stop) and go to
the middle of the cabin.
A well-mannered person gives way to older people, children, women with
heavy bags.
In public transport, do not shake snow or raindrops from clothes, do not eat, do not
They walk in with ice cream in their hands and, of course, don’t smoke.
In the salon they don’t comb their hair, don’t clean their nails, don’t pick their nose, teeth, ears...
The newspaper is read folded, without unfolding; don't look at a book or newspaper
neighbor And your eyes will tell you “thank you!” if you give up the habit altogether
read while driving.
Do not look closely at the passengers, do not lean on them with your whole body.
When entering transport, you need to take off your backpacks and bags so as not to hit (sometimes
even dirty) people.
If you find it difficult to hold a cake or flowers while driving while standing, you can politely
ask those sitting to hold them.
While in the salon, you should not laugh loudly or talk or discuss your
problems, argue loudly with friends. Moreover, it is inadmissible
insult people who reprimanded you.
Parents should ensure that children do not soil the clothes of others with their feet.
seats.
Do not take up passenger space with luggage or packages; large items are better
transport during non-peak hours. And bulky sharp objects (for example, skis) are transported
well packaged.
It is advisable for owners of animals: cats, birds, small rodents to be transported to
special cages; dogs must be muzzled.
You need to prepare for the exit in advance (especially if there are a lot of passengers). Ask
those standing in front: “Are you getting off at the next stop?” Don't silently push people away
paving your way, and, apologizing, ask permission for you to pass.
If a woman (girl) travels with a man (young man), then he is the first
walks to the exit and is the first to leave, helping his companion get off.
In any type of transport, be careful and helpful words such as
“Be kind”, “Thank you” will give you confidence in any situation and
will create an opinion among others about you as a well-mannered and
friendly.
Lesson 21
HOW TO BEHALF ON THE METRO
Enter the escalator calmly and carefully, being careful not to push
people walking ahead.
If there is an elderly or disabled person near you, try to help him
help when logging in
escalator or carriage.
Don't run down the escalator.
You should stand on the right side of the escalator.
Do not lean against the escalator handrails or the doors of train cars.
When entering and exiting the subway lobby, hold the doors.
Follow these simple rules to ensure both your safety and
as well as the people around.
Lesson 22
IN THE MUSEUM AND PICTURE GALLERY
Do not disturb other visitors; do not speak loudly; don't shuffle your feet
semi; cough, leave the hall; Do not block the exhibits with yourself.
Do not harm the exhibits themselves, do not touch them with your hands, no matter how curious
was; Don’t touch the glass of the shop windows either.
Vernissage is the grand opening of the exhibition.
And although the atmosphere is relaxed, loud laughter, bustle,
outside conversations are not allowed.
If the artist is the hero of the occasion, you know him, be sure to come and
express your entire impression of the exhibition. Or just thank and wish
success.
Lesson 23
THE CHICK HAS LAID AN EGG...
Hard-boiled egg.
It is usually served cold, already peeled and cut in half or
finely chopped. It is eaten with a knife and fork. If the hard-boiled egg is served in
shell, that is, you can do it the way you want (especially if there is no additional
dishes, where to put the shells).
Soft-boiled eggs (as in a bag) are served hot in special glasses
stands located on the saucer. The top of the egg should be cut off with a teaspoon and
pick it up with the same spoon and transfer it to a saucer. If you didn't succeed,
no problem: carefully remove the remaining parts of the shell with your fingers and place
them on a saucer. Now use a teaspoon to scoop out the semi-liquid egg.
Fried egg.
You will need: a fork, a knife and a teaspoon with a pointed end. On the left of
the plates are located
fork, knife on the right (closer to the plate) and spoon (outside).
1) Using the tip of a spoon, carefully pierce the side of the yolk, closer to the white, so that
The liquid yolk flowed into the spoon.
2) After eating the contents of the spoon, scoop out the remaining yolk and eat it too.
If the fried egg consisted of several eggs, repeat steps. 12.
3) Leave the spoon on the edge of the plate farthest from you.
4) Fold the egg white in half using a knife and fork (because a thin layer is bad
clings to the fork).
5) Cut off small pieces of protein with a knife and put them in your mouth with a fork.
Scrambled eggs (egg porridge).
As a finely crumbled dish or soufflé, it is eaten with a fork and a dull knife.
Thick protein omelet (egg soufflé).
Eat with a fork or dessert spoon.
Omelette.
Eat with a fork and knife.
Lesson 24
IN THE THEATER AND CONCERT HALL
A visit to a theater or concert can be considered a social outing. That's why
I advise you not just to get dressed, but to dress up and take your shoes with you.
You need to come to the theater or concert early so that you have time and
clean yourself up and take a walk in the lobby.
They walk to their place facing those sitting. If by chance you
If you offended someone, be sure to apologize.
During the performance, do not talk even in a whisper and do not search randomly
the dropped item will not go anywhere until the break.
At a concert, do not sing along with the performer unless he specifically says so.
asks, after all, people came to listen not to your singing).
At music concerts, don’t rush to applaud if you’re not doing well
know a piece of music: a pause in performance may mean not
the end of the performance, and a break between parts.
Flowers brought for actors should be removed from wrapping paper in advance.
(this does not apply to the beautiful special packaging). By the way, flowers can be
convey, for example, through the administrator, he is always in the hall. But
This must be agreed upon before the start of the concert or during the break.
Lesson 25
AT THE CINEMA
Of course, a cinema is not a concert hall or a theater, but it also has its own
rules.
If the headdress interferes with those sitting behind, it should be removed without waiting
requests for this. And not only boys, but also girls do this.
If someone did this for you, be sure to thank them.
Do not comment on what you see, do not express your opinion about the film and attitude
to the characters as you watch.
It bothers others. And if someone thinks differently, a dispute may arise
or noisy discussion, which has no place in a cinema. Don't forget that people
They came to watch the film, not listen to comments and arguments.
Lesson 26
IN THE THEATER, IN THE CINEMA, AT THE CONCERT
"Changewalker"
When handing your things to the cloakroom attendant, do not under any circumstances throw your jacket or
cape behind the barrier.
Let him do the work himself. If every viewer does this, the cloakroom attendant
beautiful muscles will develop. It’s best to hang the number on your finger, so it will be
It's convenient to rotate it. It is for this purpose that a hole is made on the license plates or tied
rope. If your place is in the middle of the hall, do not rush to take it. Let first
Everyone else will sit down. But then, when you pass, they will have to stand up.
This kind of exercise is very good for health. Once you're settled in, start
clap. It’s simply unfair that you’re ready, but the show or film isn’t there yet.
has begun.
Don’t forget: it’s not very often that you and your friend have to sit next to one and a half
hours.
Use this opportunity to share all the news and discuss difficult
questions. One bad thing: sometimes you have to strain your vocal cords, as it interferes with
music or actors' lines... Buy chocolate at the buffet, but don't eat it right away. Go to the hall and
turn around when the singer or musician takes the stage. Do you know how nice it is to eat?
chocolate and candies to the music! Be sure to rustle the foil loudly. Do not be
selfish. If you know the content of a film or play, quickly tell me
the most important thing is for the neighbors. They will be so grateful! Remember that it's a long time to sit
standing motionless is very harmful to the body. So move more: turn around,
lean over, rest your feet on the back of the front seat, push your neighbors' hands off
armrests.
Be sure to leave the hall several times during the performance or screening of the film and
take a walk around the foyer. When you return, don’t forget to ask your friend loudly what happened the other day.
the time of your absence. My friend, did you guess that you need to do everything the other way around? :)
Lesson 27
FLOWERS AS A GIFT
If you know what flowers your friends or relatives have, then
don’t hesitate and give them exactly.
It is appropriate to give a child a small bouquet (violets, forget-me-nots,
daisies, mimosas...), tied with a bright ribbon. Can be given as a gift
tulip. They say he opens up to the laughter of a child.
Roses or carnations would be a good gift for mom, and delicate flowers for grandma.
tones: lilies, chrysanthemums... Give red carnations to dad and grandfather.
You can give your older sister unblown pink or red flowers.
roses. Dark roses would be a good gift for an older brother.
According to tradition, a gift bouquet should contain an odd number of flowers: 3, 5,
7... If you give one flower, pay attention: it should not be
fragile and not small.
Flowers are presented after freeing them from paper in advance. And if the flowers are
elegant gift wrapping, then it is not removed.
The bouquet is carried along the street and presented with the stems down.
A good option is an indoor flower in a beautiful pot. But better
find out in advance the tastes and preferences of the person you want to give a gift to.
Gifted flowers are immediately placed in water in the room where guests are received.
Lesson 28
HOW TO EAT FRUIT
A PINEAPPLE. Serve in slices with peel. Eat with help
dessert fork and knife, cutting out triangles.
WATERMELON and MELON. Serve cut into slices. The pulp is eaten tea
spoon or using a dessert fork and knife.
ORANGE. It is very difficult to eat at the table. First method: washed
cut the orange into slices; holding the circle in your hand and breaking the ring
peel, eat the pulp.
Second method: completely peel the orange and divide it into
slices that can be taken by hand.
BANANA. Peel and eat the pulp with a teaspoon or dessert spoon.
or a dessert fork.
GRAPE. They pick them off the bunch, put them on their plate and eat them one at a time.
berry
CHERRY. Served with petioles, holding them by which the berries are eaten. Wherein
The bone is spat out onto a dessert spoon, bringing it close to the lips.
Then place the bone on the edge of the saucer.
GRAPEFRUIT. Serve cut crosswise. Edible middle part
peeled with a knife and sprinkled with powdered sugar. Are eating
dessert spoon.
STRAWBERRY. If served with sepals, then eat by holding the petiole and
dipping in powdered sugar. If the berry is served without sepals, then
first sprinkle the whole with powdered sugar and eat tea
with a spoon.
LEMON. Cut into slices. Take it with a special small fork and
put coffee in a cup of tea. Squeeze out the juice and remaining lemon with a spoon.
take it out and place it on the edge of the saucer.
APPLES. Cut into 4 pieces using a knife and fork. They eat the slices
hands.
PEAR. Cut into 4 parts, like an apple, but eat with a fork and
knife
MANDARIN. Peel and divide into slices, which are taken
hands.
PEACH and PLUM. Cut in half and remove with a knife and fork.
bone.
APRICOT. They are eaten either like peaches or cherries.
Lesson 29
FOREST ETIQUETTE
BUNNY AND SQUIRREL
Bunny and squirrel playing
At the tall spruce.
The stars are disappearing in the sky,
This means there will be a snowstorm.
The bunny takes off his mittens,
The squirrel puts it on quickly,
What a boy
Little bunny.
Snowstorms are no longer scary
The mittens warmed the squirrel...
A bunny and a squirrel were walking
Together until dawn
Their eyes shone in the night
Beads of light.
Stubborn Donkey
Along a narrow path
Centipedes crawled
The ducklings followed them
Happy chickens.
A donkey got in the way.
Let us pass, donkey!
I don't believe my ears
He told the kids.
The donkey's legs are spread out
For track width:
I even rhinoceros
I won't give way.
ETIQUETTE
If you are a beaver man,
Be very kind to the beaver.
If you are a tiger man,
Offer more games.
If you are a hedgehog man,
You will find everything for your girlfriend.
And I'll give you some more advice
To all animal gentlemen:
Talk to your sweetheart more often,
And flowers, give flowers!
* * *
People teach, animals teach:
You have to trust mom and dad.
Every time before meals
Remember the simple advice
Wash your faces and faces
Paws, arms and hooves.
This is the rule for everyone
Whether you wear or don't wear fur.
* * *
Among the fir trees and pine trees
The little fox got lost.
I'm in a hurry to help him
The forest will soon be covered by night.
To mom and dad's home
The path I know.
After all, the little fox and I are friends,
But you can’t leave your friends!
Lesson 30
ETIQUETTE FOR TODDLERS
Don't take candy to kindergarten
After all, other children feel hurt.
See your mom off in peace
And behave with dignity.
Don't fight and don't swear,
Don't be rude.
Listen to the teacher
Sleep and eat without orders.
Don't spit on your plate
And chew it properly.
Don't push your girlfriend
If he holds a mug in his hand.
Help those who are weaker
Be smarter and kinder.
Get dressed quickly
Don't delay the children.
Go where you can
Just be very careful.
Don't take the toy away
Take another one and play.
After sleep, stretch
Wash your face and comb your hair.
Don't go with strangers
Call the teacher.
Greet your mother joyfully,
Don't miss your girlfriends.
Lesson 31
ETIQUETTE FOR TODDLERS
RULES OF CONDUCT AT THE TABLE
Eat your bread carefully
This is a kitchen, not a barn.
Don't turn around like a top on your chair,
Don't put your head in the pan.
Eat the soup carefully,
Don't spit it back out.
Drink your tea without spilling!
What is this big puddle?
What's that noise? What fell?
Masha was dreaming at the table.
Don't feed the cutlet to the cat
And eat a little yourself.
Wipe your mouth with a napkin
And don't drip on your stomach.
Eat jelly and porridge with a spoon,
Soup, puree and yogurt.
You can take potatoes with a fork,
Meat, rice... No need for a spoon!
You can take the pie with your hand,
Glazed curd.
And say thank you to everyone
Who did you eat food from?
Lesson 32
ETIQUETTE FOR TODDLERS
VISITING
First you agree
Then get ready to visit.
We dress smartly
To look smart.
You got dressed, combed your hair...
Why didn't you wash your face?
Don't go without a gift
You shouldn't feel sorry for him!
If you are not invited,
Don't force your way in.
Don't forget to take off your shoes,
You can't walk around in them at home!
Don't be naughty and don't bite
Don't be offended for no reason.
Don't break tables and furniture,
Wherever you have been as a guest, my friend.
Be well-mannered and modest
Don't poke around in secluded places.
No need to kick a cat
And throw potatoes under the table!
Praise the owners, the house,
And also what’s in the house.
You put on your shoes, took your jacket...
And "Goodbye!" said?
Lesson 33
ETIQUETTE FOR TODDLERS
IN TRANSPORT
Give room to old ladies
If it gets too crowded.
Don't shout that you're dreaming of sitting down
Stand still and not melt.
Stand still and hold on
Don't cry and don't turn around.
There's no need to waste anything here
It's a joy to be educated.
Don't throw the candy wrapper on the floor,
And he fell, pick him up.
Don't kick others
And don't get your boots dirty.
Don't sing songs loudly
Slowly close your mouth.
Before we talk about politeness lessons for children, about whether your child is well-mannered and knows how to say hello, let’s first look at ourselves. Do we say hello to all the people we know and don’t know? With neighbors, with residents of your home, in a clinic, in a store, at work...
The first step to teaching your child to say hello is to show your politeness by example. It happens that you walk with your child, say hello to your friends, but the child lowers his eyes and does not want to say “hello,” for example, to his neighbors, no matter how much you persuade him. It is impossible to force a child to do anything, and it is not at all necessary - both teachers and parents know this.
The child does not want to say hello simply because he does not understand why this needs to be done. In this situation, understanding and patience are required from adults. Explain to your child in an accessible, friendly manner, without edification or orders, why people say hello. If a child heard his parents or relatives (grandmother, aunt, uncle, etc.) speak negatively, for example, about neighbors or other people with whom he often sees, and in the morning the parents greet them warmly, smile and force the child to say hello. The child is at a loss. He feels false and does not know what to do correctly: either say hello or not... It happens that a child is in a bad mood, he is upset about something and does not want to say hello just when his parents tell him: “Well, say hello to aunt...." If the baby is silent and does not want to say hello, it means something has happened. Do not force it. After all, you know that he is a polite child, he understands that he needs to say hello, but you teach him this by your own example. After a while, feeling better, he himself, without your reminder, will say hello. One of the reasons may be an unfavorable family environment. If mom doesn't say hello to grandparents, dad never says "Good morning", grandparents don't greet each other, older brothers and sisters don't say "Good morning." Goodbye,” then in such a family atmosphere it is difficult to be polite. If in a family, instead of saying “good morning”, it is customary to say: “Come on, get up and get ready quickly!”, then where can a child learn politeness? Where, if not in the family, can he learn polite words?
Your baby is growing up, and you will definitely be faced with the task of teaching your child to be polite. This is required by the rules of community life and team interactions. The question immediately arises: “How? What should politeness lessons be for children? There are several small and very simple “secrets”.
Tell your children more often about the rules of polite communication, read books, make up your own stories with your child, and be a role model for your child.
One day, a very sweet, smart, wonderful five-year-old girl came to my lesson. I said hello to her, but she didn’t say hello to me. When I asked why she didn’t say hello, she answered: “I don’t want to.” "And why?" "Don't know". Then I told her about the meaning of the word “hello.” She told me how to greet children and adults. And she said hello to me. And the most interesting thing is that from then on, she never forgot to say this magic word when meeting.
What is "hello"?
The best of words.
Because "hello"
It means “be healthy.”
With children who do not want to say hello, it is important to find out why, for example, your child always greets the grandmother on the first floor with joy and a smile, but does not want to greet the neighbors who live nearby. As practice has shown, in this particular case, it turns out that the neighbors always made a remark to the parents: “Why is your boy such a bad boy, he never says hello. Who will grow out of it? A rude and a hooligan." This was said kindly, but with edification. The kid did not understand the meaning of all the words, but he realized that they were talking badly about him and was offended. The parents also understood the reason for the baby’s offense and did not terrorize the child: “Well, say hello to your aunt and uncle.” They simply greeted themselves, setting an example for the child. Time will pass, grievances will disappear, and, perhaps, fears of strangers will disappear, and your baby, guided by your personal example, will be the most attentive and well-mannered child. Show how to greet family, acquaintances and strangers, and always greet the child personally and personally. Pay your child’s attention how pleased you are when he responds in kind.
To make it easier for your child to accept the “adult rules” of politeness, in addition to leading by example, play games with him. They make politeness lessons fun and exciting for kids!
Game “Learning magic words”
Be sure to tell us what polite words mean. Learn the magic words of politeness with your child: good afternoon, hello, goodbye, good evening, good day, hello. Tell us that people of different nationalities greet each other in different ways. Give an example. By doing this, you will strengthen the child’s confidence that it is customary for all people of different nationalities to say hello and goodbye, and that polite words exist all over the planet. Repeated repetition will help your baby not only learn and remember that he needs to say hello to everyone he sees for the first time: adults and his friends, but will also form the habit of saying hello and goodbye.
Game "Echo"
You notice that at the moment when adults expect a greeting from the child, he begins to hide behind his parents and feel shy. In this case, we need your help. We need to help the child overcome shyness. Before entering, for example, a class, a lesson, or some institution, agree with your child that you will greet each other together. Beat the situation, play the game “Echo”. The mother speaks, the child repeats. Tell us what an echo is. This often happens when a child knows that he needs to say hello, but is very shy. Help him overcome his shyness by playing. For example, you enter some institution, immediately join the game. In a quiet voice, like real conspirators, say: “Trump-ra-ra, the game begins.” On the count of three, let’s say hello together.” Or: “Tram-ho-ho, let’s play Echo.” Come on, play quickly, I’ll start, you repeat.” You say hello, and the child repeats. Continue playing Echo, using words of farewell, gratitude, and so on.
Playing "Game Situations"
Use what all children like: nursery rhymes, songs, finger games, fairy tales, theatrical performances (puppet theater, acting out skits). Role-playing games are also suitable. Act out a certain life situation, for example, this: “We are going to the cinema.” And during the game, say hello, thank, and say goodbye to people of different ages.
Finger game “Guests came running to Sonya”
Guests came running to Sonya,
(Run your fingers along the table or floor.)
Everyone shook hands.
Hello, Ira,
(We connect the thumb and index fingers.)
Hello Zhanna,
(We connect the thumb and middle fingers.)
Glad to see everyone Petya
(We connect the thumb and ring fingers.)
And Snezhana!
(We connect the thumb and little finger.)
Would you like some pie?
(We put our palms together.)
Maybe a shortbread
(We show two open palms.)
Or a horn?
(We put our fists on top of each other.)
Here's a jelly bean for you
(Poke a finger into an open palm.)
You take a little at a time.
(We bend our palms into fists several times.)
Everyone quickly shook off the crumbs
And they clapped their hands!
Fragment from the theatrical lesson “Polite words”
The song “Let's Get Acquainted” by A. Zakharova is playing.
Teacher: - What a wonderful word - hello. This word is magical. And this is what it means. The person who greets wishes health to the person to whom this word is intended. In response, as a rule, he hears wishes for health for himself. Sometimes children and even adults forget to say hello. And so you don’t forget, let’s teach you how to say hello to your fingers.
The fingers of the right hand pat the fingers of the left hand in turn.
Hello, golden sun!
Hello, blue sky!
Hello, free breeze!
Hello, little oak tree!
We live in the same region -
I greet you all! (Put your palms together.)
(Sikacheva T.)
Teacher: - Do you guys know that you should always say hello with a smile and a good mood? Look at me as I say hello now and tell me how you liked it better.
“Hello, guys,” says the teacher cheerfully.
“Hello, guys,” says the teacher gloomily, lowering his head.
Teacher: - When I spoke with a smile, I wished you health and gave you a good mood. Now, so that you can share your good mood with your friends, let’s play the game “Pass a Smile.”
I'll smile to myself
I'll smile at you
I'm not too lazy to smile
I smile all day!
The game-exercise “Pass a Smile” is played to the music of V. Shainsky “Smile”.
Teacher: - I’m also in a very good mood. Now we will pass the smile around in a circle.
The teacher smiles, turning to the child standing next to him. He passes on a smile to his neighbor and so on.
Teachers understand that it is impossible to learn anything in one lesson. When teaching politeness, it is impossible to achieve good results in one lesson. Therefore, come up with your own meeting and farewell ritual. It is very important. The child will remember what to say hello and what to say, respectively, goodbye.
Play and creativity
Make finger toys from salt dough. Then don't just play with them, but play with purpose. For example, organize a didactic game “Magic Words”. Let a bear or a dog come to visit the child. Teach your child to say hello to toys first. You can teach greetings with different intonations. Then discuss which greeting you liked best. Teaching politeness in a playful way will have a positive impact on a child’s upbringing. It is known that it is through playing at home and playing in kindergarten that children learn about the world. And therefore, they learn to be well-mannered. Alternatively, when playing, use a toy to show what politeness and impoliteness mean. At the end of the game, talk about what you saw. Let your child draw his own conclusion.
Conversation
What a culture of behavior is, children need to be taught about it from childhood. Let the baby (the sooner the better) learn the life rule: “Doing good things for people means making yourself prettier.” Tell them that when they say hello, the child wishes him health, and in return they wish him health. When teaching politeness lessons to children and talking about politeness, remember the words of Spinoza: “Whenever we do good to another being, we begin to feel better, because good deeds strengthen our nature.” The child should know about this. Rules of politeness and norms of behavior in society form sensitivity, openness and sincerity
Reading stories, poems and fairy tales
Select a list of books about politeness and norms of behavior. Memorize the poem “Hello, polite word!” with your child. Read
“Moidodyr” by K. I. Chukovsky, “What is good and what is bad” by V. Mayakovsky, Russian folk tale “The Fox and the Crane”, “If you are polite” by S. Ya. Marshak, “Rules of behavior for well-mannered children” O M. Zhuravleva, “Cheerful Etiquette” and so on.
It would be right if you create a children's library and select books about politeness and rules of behavior. Let your child’s library have, for example, the following books:
“Lessons in Politeness” by A. Usachev, “A Very Polite Turkey” by B. Zakhoder, “The ABC of Politeness” by L. V. Ginnus and N. Chub, “On Politeness” by S. Ya. Marshak, “Polite Donkey” by I. Pivovarova, “ The magic word" by V. Oseeva and others.
Hello!
Having bowed, we said to each other,
Although they didn’t know each other at all.
Hello!
What's special about what we said to each other?
Just hello, we didn’t say anything else.
Why is there a drop of sunshine in the world?
Why has life become a little more joyful?
(Soloukhin V.)
Motivation and Praise
As you know, praise is a powerful incentive for mastering any rules, including rules of behavior. But the praise must be appropriate; a kind word spoken at the right time will remain in the child’s memory. One quickly thrown word “Well done” is not enough. Praise should be sincere and kind.
Praise must be deserved. Some psychologists argue that children should not be praised for natural things. You can agree, but not with kids. Saying hello to family, friends, and the teacher seems natural and necessary to us adults, but the baby doesn’t know this yet. He's still studying. Therefore, such natural polite words still require praise from adults.
Many teachers know that there are little “secrets” of praise when working with children:
It is necessary to praise only for a certain, specific task. An adult needs to add an explanation for why to the word “well done” or “smart girl”. “Well done, thank you for...” The child should know where the praise comes from. Use sentences with pronouns. “I enjoyed it so much today...”, “I was so happy for you...” Praise, always looking into the child's eyes. He should feel your sincere participation in the praise. Praise your child with a smile. A child will not be able to truly perceive praise if you speak in a dissatisfied and quiet voice or with a gloomy face. Sometimes words of praise cannot bring joy to a child’s soul. Physical contact is required. If you take your baby by the hands, hug and hold him close, or even just pat him on the head, the child will shine with happiness! Don't put off words of praise until later. In order for a child to understand and reinforce his behavior, praise must be timely. Personal example
Benjamin Spock, an American pediatrician and author of books on parenting, wrote in one of his books: “It is the duty of parents to raise their children to be loved by other people.” This is true. If your child is surrounded by a space of love and politeness, and he responds in the same way to those around him, then it will be easier and simpler for him to realize himself in society, master the norms of behavior in a team, in relationships with peers and adults, and adapt to a new situation.
Learning songs about politeness together
Politeness lessons for children can be supplemented with songs. Learn and sing with your child, listen to audio recordings of the following songs:
Little Red Riding Hood's song “Hello, the mountains are so high...”, “Hello mothers of planet Earth”, “Long live friendship!”, “Of course, it would be great to send someone a secret!”, “Four cockroaches and a cricket” and others.
For preschool children, parents are the dearest people whom they trust and believe, they are the most important in their lives, and therefore the parent’s word is a priority in raising children. The child doesn’t understand, why say hello? Explain patiently. Simple, childish, friendly. Don’t push, the time will come and the child, taught by you, will show politeness without your prompting. In the meantime, just remind him, play, read books about politeness and polite people, sing songs, watch kind and funny cartoons (for example, “38 Parrots”), go to exhibitions and theaters. And your baby, relying on experience and personal example, will certainly quickly learn the rules of etiquette. You should not hope that this will be taught in kindergarten, or that your grandmother, nanny, or teacher will teach you this. Only you yourself, by your own example, guided by simple rules, can teach your child the rules of etiquette and norms of behavior in society. Don't skimp on your words of praise. In addition to the words “well done” and “clever girl,” find kind and gentle words of praise for your baby.
Follow simple rules and techniques and you will be sure that your child will grow up friendly, polite and well-mannered. After all, “politeness and good manners are absolutely necessary in order to decorate any other virtues and talents,” the English diplomat and writer Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield once noted.
"Good morning"
Invented by someone simply and wisely
When meeting, say hello:
- Good morning!
Good morning
Sun and birds.
Good morning
Smiling faces.
And everyone becomes
Kind, trusting.
Good morning lasts until evening.
KSU Secondary School No. 252 named after G.N. Kovtunov
Class hour on the topic:
« A Lesson in Politeness »
Teacher: Aldanazarova G.S.
Class: 2 "A"
Date: 02/23/2016
Target:
to form in children an idea of politeness, politeness
behavior.
Tasks:
1. Teach children to use polite words.
2. Introduce the history of the word “thank you.”
3. Expand children’s understanding of culture of behavior.
4. Instill the skills of cultural, polite behavior in children when communicating with each other and other people.
Progress of the lesson: (Slide No. 1 )-Start 1.Organizational point: Good afternoon guys! Are you ready to talk?We have guests today - look.
What should we tell our guests?
Well done! How polite you are.- Everyone, everyone, smile at each other and sit down quietly!
2. Statement of the topic.
You can guess what we will talk about today if you listen carefully to A. Barto’s poem.
Friends, here you go just in case
Poems about a schoolboy alone:
His name is... but it’s better
We won't name him here.
He is often lazy
Say when meeting: “Good afternoon!”
But he is shy and silent.
And at best "great"
He says "hello" instead.
“Thank you”, “hello”, “sorry”
He's not used to pronouncing it.
A simple word "sorry"
His tongue did not overcome him.
And instead of the word “goodbye”
He doesn't say anything.
Or he will say goodbye:
“Well, I’m off, bye, that’s all...”
He won’t tell his friends at school:
Alyosha, Petya, Vanya, Tolya.
He only calls his friends:
Alyoshka, Petka, Vanka, Tolka.
Guys, we can't do it here.
Tell you his name.
We honestly warn you,
That we don’t know his name.
But maybe he's familiar to everyone,
And you have met him somewhere.
Then tell us about it,
And we... we will tell you - thank you!
So, what will our conversation be about? (About politeness)
Read the topic on the slide.
- Guys, how do you understand what it means to be a polite, good person?
Why are all roads open to politeness? (A polite person is always welcome, people want to communicate with him, everything works out for them)(Slide No. 2) In ancient times, the word “vezha” meant “expert”, one who knows the rules of decency, one who treated people kindly. Politeness is the ability to behave in such a way that others enjoy communicating with you.
In order to become polite, you need to use polite words more often in your speech, which will make you feel warmer, happier, and lighter in your soul. A kind word can cheer a person up in difficult times and can help dispel a bad mood.But not only should our words be kind, we must always behave in such a way that our actions are good, so that we do not have to blush and be ashamed for them.
And today we will try to determine what kind of experts in the rules of politeness you are. Or maybe you will learn new rules and new polite words.And the cat Leopold will help us.
3. Work on the topic.
We will take you on a journey through the city of Politeness. First we need to cross the Polite Words Bridge.
This magical flower “Seven-flowered Flower” will help us with this.
We will tear off the petals in order and complete the flower’s tasks. Do you agree?
The seven-flowered flower is made of paper. Would we tear off the petals of a real flower?
If you are ready to work, then I will ask you to help me. (Tears off1 petal and reads the task)
1 petal “Magic words”
^
In our small village there is this ancient custom:
Morning, afternoon and in the dark
Those, and those, and those, and those,
Having met, certainly
They say at the same time...
(
Hello!
)
Slide 3
- Well done boys.
- Well done! What conclusion can we draw?(You must alwaysgreet each other).
- Let's listen to the next poem.^
Cold days have come,
And migratory birds,
winged creatures,
Flying under the clouds
Somewhere in distant countries.
We wave our hands to them:
- See you! ...
(Goodbye!)
Slide 4
- Well done!
Well done! Guys, what should we tell people when we break up with them?- Goodbye.- Guys, now listen to this story about an elephant and a mouse.The mouse met an elephant on the way
And she squeaked quietly and pitifully:
- Sorry for the insolence,
Tell me please,
How can I grow up to you, to an elephant?
The elephant was surprised:
- Please tell me, baby, but he knows the word “please”!
-
Guys, tell me, what magic word did the mouse say when it addressed the elephant? ("Please".)Slide 5
- Well done! When do we say "please", guys? (When we ask for something or something).Wizards - gnomes
Not enough for us
They could do something wonderful
But he performs a hundred times more miracles
Magic word…
Thank you.Slide 6
- Well done. Guys, if someone caused trouble or inconvenience to another, without meaning to. What magic word should he say? (Sorry)- Well done. Guys, tell me, what do we say when we go to bed?(Good night.)Slide 8
- Well done! Guys, you should always remember these rules and use them in your life.
Tell me, why do I call these words magic? (magic words help us in different situations when communicating with people)
Teacher. Do you always use “magic” words when communicating with people?
Slide 9
There are not one or two polite words,
Remember and know these miracle words.
Name such “magic” words.
2 petals
“Politely impolite.” If it's polite, the traffic light is green, if it's impolite, it's red.
Say hello when meeting -
Pushing and not apologizing -
Do not stand up while addressing the teacher -
– Interrupt during a conversation...
- Be able to maintain silence in class...
- Be able to listen to a friend.
- Let the girls go first...
– Say “Goodbye” when leaving class for home
- To talk loudly...
- Help pick up a fallen thing...
- Call your neighbor an offensive word...
Next "Deed Alley"
3 petal “Say a word”
I read you a story, and you insert the right word in unison. One day Vova went to the theater. On the tram he sat near the window and looked at the street with interest. A woman with a little boy got on the tram. Vova stood up and said to the woman: “Sit down... (children in chorus: “Please”). The woman was delighted and said to Vova:... (“Thank you.”) Suddenly the tram suddenly stopped. Vova almost fell and pushed a man hard. The man wanted to get angry, but Vova said:... (“Excuse me, please.”)
Next “Street of Good Hearts”
4 petals Competition “The most polite”
Let's play a game in which you need to say a polite word and pass the ball to someone else. Do not repeat the same words. Good luck!
Guys, tell me, if a person knows a lot of polite words, then can he be called a polite person?
Listen carefully to A. Antonov’s poem “Is Vitya Polite or Not.”
Vitya offended the baby, but in front of school he was in line
Vitya asks: “Sorry, I admit my mistake.”
The teacher came to class and put a magazine on the table.
Next Vitya: “Sorry, I’m a little late.”
The debate has been going on in class for a long time
Is Vitya polite or not? Understand our dispute and tell us the answer.
Guys, what do you think? Is Vitya polite or not?
(He knows polite words, but his actions do not match his words, and he commits bad deeds.)
Not only should our words be kind and polite, but also our actions.
5 petal a game “Please don’t make a mistake!”
Let's take a little rest. Let's play a game“Please don’t make a mistake!”
I will give commands, but you will only carry out those that contain “magic words”.
So, let's start!
Stand up.
Stand up please!
Hands up.
Please raise your hands!
Please clap!
Stomp.
Jump please!
Please lean forward
Lean back.
Please sit down
Please stand up.
Sit quietly.
Please sit down quietly!
6 petal "Exam"
So, the problems are not about addition,
Problems on the rules of respect!
1. Two boys collided at the door. They just can't separate. Which of them should give way if one is 8 years old and the other is 11? (The one who is more polite gives way.)
2. What to do before entering someone's house or apartment! (Knock or call.)
3. What words are spoken when meeting and saying goodbye?
4. Who should give up a seat to whom (at a party or in transport)?
5. How many times a day should you greet the same person?
6. If you ate candy, what will you do with the candy wrapper?
7. Why will a truly polite person never lie, brag, or offend his friends?
7 petal From the history of words
Thank you . Where did this word come from?
In ancient times, when they wanted to thank a person for a good Deed, they said to him:
God bless you!
God bless turned into a short thank you. You should never forget this word. There is even a proverb: “Don’t regret your thanks!”
REFLECTION
Whether the magic flower helped us become more polite or not, we will now check
I suggest you answer the questions of the test “Am I polite?” If the answer to the question is yes, then +
If not, then -Test “Am I polite?”
(
slide 10)
1. Do you thank your mother or the cooks for dinner?
2. Do you apologize if you accidentally pushed someone?
3.
Do I need to take off my hat when I come to visit, the theater, or the library?
4. Can someone who loves animals be called polite?
5. Should you say hello to your neighbors?
6. Should you smile when greeting someone?
Let's check. Attention to the slide. Compare your answers with the correct ones.
Raise your hand those who were not mistaken and would like to praise themselves for their work.
Who made the mistakes?
What conclusion can we draw? Are you polite or not?
Well done!
Did the seven-flowered flower help us become more polite?Slide 11
Let's thank him for this and give him flowers.
If you liked the class hour, it was interesting and useful, then choose a red flower, and if it was uninteresting, boring, then choose a pink one.
Now let's place the flowersadd to cart, while speaking polite words.) .
Important words
The words "Goodbye"
“Thank you”, “Sorry”,
"Please", "Hello"
Give generously!
___________________________
Give to passersby
To friends and acquaintances,
On the trolleybus, in the park,
Both at school and at home.
___________________________
These words are very
And very important.
They are human
Like air is needed.
________________
It's impossible without them
To live in the world.
These words are necessary
Give with a smile.
Song.
Extracurricular activity in 2nd grade
Prepared the lesson
primary school teacher
GBOU secondary school No. 8
Kiyatkina T.N.
Subject: A lesson in politeness.
Target: Introduce children to speech ethics and the culture of communication; repeat polite words that are used when greeting, farewell, and thanking.
Equipment:
On the board is a poster with an applique of a bouquet of flowers. At the beginning of the lesson, the petals are turned with the side where the words are printed facing the board; layout of the “ABC of Politeness”; cards with polite words; butterflies with polite words; presentation “A lesson in politeness” of seven slides;
musical soundtrack of the song Leopold the Cat.
During the classes:
1. Organizational moment.
2. Conversation on the topic. What is “politeness” and “gratitude”.
Today our lesson is dedicated to politeness - what you need to learn from childhood in order to grow up to be real people, kind, sympathetic, and cultured. These are very important qualities for a person.
I want to start the lesson with a gift. I give you this bouquet, albeit not real, but magical flowers. You will soon reveal their secret. (There is an applique on the poster - there are four flowers in a vase, on the stems of which the words are written: rudeness, politeness, kindness and gratitude.)
But there is an extra flower in this bouquet. Guess which one?
(children choose a flower with the word “rudeness”)
Why is this flower extra?
(children give their explanations and remove this flower from the bouquet)
Indeed, rudeness is a quality not worthy of a cultured person. And kindness, politeness and gratitude are the best qualities of a well-mannered person. Why is this so? You will find the answer to this question in the text called "Politeness and Gratitude"(show slide number 2).
3. Working with text and illustrations
A person lives among people. People constantly influence each other. This influence can be unpleasant and painful if people do not take into account each other’s interests. It can be bright and warm if they care about each other. That is why people have developed rules of behavior. These rules are called politeness.
Lack of politeness is called rudeness. In response to one person's politeness, another expresses gratitude.
Look at the picture (slide No. 3). Which of the characters behaves badly and which acts politely?
(the guys discuss the situations depicted on slide No. 3)
Similar situations happen in our classes. We all, one way or another, depend on each other. For example, you can sit at your desk in such a way that you disturb your neighbor. But you can arrange your things in such a way that it will be convenient for your neighbor. And if suddenly your neighbor’s pen or pencil gets damaged, you can give him your spare one. A neighbor may take a pen and thank you, or he may take it and forget to thank you, not return it, and not even remember the good deed. This means that many of you may come to class, to school and act as if he is alone and not notice the others. But each of you can enter school, into class, expecting to see friends here who will help in difficult times and will not offend you.
So what is politeness? (Slide No. 4)
Politeness is the ability to behave in such a way
so that others feel good with you.
4. Rules of politeness. (Working with a poster on the board)
We all need to learn to be polite so that everyone can enjoy being at school, both adults and children. Let's discover a few important rules of politeness for ourselves - this will be our first secret. These rules are found on the petals of the carnation.
(Children go to the board, turn over the petals, read the rules and stick them on the poster.)
The rules of politeness are printed on the petals:
Politeness shows how you treat other people.
A polite person always says hello and goodbye.
A polite person does not cause trouble or offense to another.
A polite person does not respond to rudeness with rudeness.
A polite person is friendly and considerate of others.
If we think about each other, we will be polite to each other, and in return for politeness we will respond with gratitude, then we will all be fine in class, at school and anywhere else.
5. Game minute:
Expressing gratitude, people at different times performed certain actions. They could bow to each other at the waist, they could only bow their heads slightly, and the women curtsied.
Get up, turn to your neighbor, smile at each other and, in gratitude for the smile, bow, and let the girls curtsy.
6. Rules of conduct for a cultured person. (Working with a poster)
- Now let’s reveal the secret of the “seven-colored flower” - seven more rules of behavior for a cultured person. These rules are printed on the petals of the magic flower.
(Children go to the board, remove the petal, read the rules and paste it back onto the poster.)
The following rules are printed on the petals of this flower:
At school, in the classroom, don’t litter.
If you see rubbish, pick it up!
Respect the work of others.
If you make a mess, clean it up yourself!
Be careful in your clothes:
Avoid both holes and stains!
Don't be rude to your loved ones at home!
Have pity on the kids, love them!
So that they can be proud of you,
You must work hard!
A man without politeness
Believe me, it costs very little!
Be friendly
Modest and attentive!
7.Working with the “ABC of Politeness.”
Books help a person become literate. The first book for everyone was “ABC”, from which they learned to read and write. And the “ABC of Politeness” will help you become a cultured person. (Slide No. 5)
Let's collect this “ABC” from kind and polite words that are written on cards on your tables. (Children read the words on the cards and paste them onto the “ABC of Politeness” poster layout into the appropriate groups)
Words of greeting:
Hello, hello, good afternoon, good morning,
good evening, greetings.
What does the simple word “Hello” mean?
(student)
What is "hello"?
The best of words.
Because "hello"
So, be healthy.
Remember the rule
You know - repeat.
This is the word for the elders
Speak first.
In the evening we parted
We met in the morning
So the word "hello"
It's time to talk.
You can use the greeting “Good morning”.
(student)
Invented by someone
Simple and wise
When meeting, say hello:
-Good morning!
Good morning! –
Sun and birds
-Good morning! –
Smiling faces.
And everyone becomes
Kind, trusting...
Good morning lasts until evening.
Words of attention to the interlocutor:
How are you, how are you living, how are you feeling, what successes,
please, I ask you, allow me, be kind,
be kind, if you don't mind.
(student)
"Be kind" or "Be kind" -
These words are useful in conversation.
They are easy to use on walks and at home:
Anyone will be pleased to hear them.
Words of apology:
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,
I'm sorry, I'm really sorry.
Another polite word should be added to the words of apology "Please":
-Excuse me, please.
-Excuse me, please.
- It is no coincidence that folk wisdom says:
“If you manage to do something wrong, manage to obey.”
Words of gratitude:
Thank you, thank you very much, thank you,
very grateful.
In ancient times, when they wanted to thank a person for a good deed, they said to him: “God save you!” (Slide No. 6)
(student)
If, in word or deed.
Did anyone help you?
Don't be shy loudly, boldly
Say: “Thank you!”
- “Thank you” - consists of two parts good And I give it. Good means “good”, “good”, i.e. everything that is good and serves our happiness. (Storage No. 7)
Farewell words:
Goodbye, goodbye, see you later,
All the best, bye, happy to stay.
A magical, kind word will help in difficult times
Nothing is valued as dearly as a kind and polite word.
Not only should our words be kind, but our actions should also be such that we are not ashamed of them.
Choose the right words from our “ABC of Politeness” for different situations. (Children read the proposed situations and act them out in pairs)
8. Acting out speech situations:
You are going to school and on the way you meet a classmate. How do you greet him?
You saw a teacher at school. Who should say hello first? How do you greet the teacher?
In the evening my parents came home from work. Should you welcome them? What words will help you show that you are glad to see them?
You are leaving school. How do you say goodbye to your teacher? With the guys?
9. What is kindness?
Let's reveal one more secret. He is hiding in the bell. (Slide No. 8)
Kindness is a person’s desire to do
making other people happy.
(Children turn the bell over, read it and stick it on the poster.)
And if it helps anyone
Your kindness, your smile,
Are you happy that day
I didn't live in vain,
That you have not lived for years in vain!
10. Lesson summary.
It's time to sum up our unusual lesson in politeness and remember the rules of politeness that will help us communicate with others in such a way as not to quarrel, not to upset anyone, and to be cultured people.
Will the guys tell us what is “good” and what is “bad”?
(students)
If you study for five,
Discipline too
I can tell you:
It couldn't be better!
If you are a talker and a liar,
And a big rascal
I can tell you:
This is very bad!
If you shared it with a friend
You are your candies -
You did well
Everyone will say this.
You found out someone else's secret
And he smashed it right away,
It's bad, it's worse
It's even mean!
If you filed in front of everyone
Girl's coat
You are a cultured person
World boy!
If you are like a wild animal,
You immediately go to fight,
Believe me, you are not worthy
To be called a man!
If you warmed up the cat,
You feed the birds in the cold,
It's just beauty
That's the only way it's needed!
You blacked out the dog's eye
Threw the cat into a puddle.
Be sure - forty times
You are worse than dogs!
Respect the people around you
The older ones, the younger ones too,
And then you, my friend,
They'll call it good!
If you are among the guys
Lonely as at sea
It's only your fault
In this bitter grief!
Guys, try to always be polite, kind, cultured people. Don't forget about the magic words. These words are written on the wings of butterflies. Trace them and decorate our bouquet with these butterflies, gluing them to any place on the poster. We will give this bouquet and the “ABC of Politeness” to the children of our school.
Guys, remember the kindest and most well-mannered cat in the world. This is Leopold the Cat. What did he always call the mice to do?
Guys let's be friends!
11.Musical conclusion of the lesson.
Guys, let's sing together a good song by Leopold the Cat.
(the lesson ends with the performance of the Leopold Cat song)
The rain fell barefoot on the ground,
Maples clapped his shoulders.
If it's a clear day -
This is good,
But when it’s the other way around, it’s bad. 2 times
Do you hear it ringing?
High in the sky
Strings of sunlight.
If you are kind,
It's always easy.
But when it’s the other way around, it’s difficult. 2 times
With your song,
Scattering loud laughter.
If you sing songs
It's more fun with them.
And when it’s the other way around, it’s boring. 2 times
Subject : "A lesson in politeness."
Target : consolidate and deepen students’ knowledge of politeness;
teach children to use various verbal forms of politeness;
instill in children ethical standards of behavior.
Progress of the class hour.
1. Organizational moment.
Hello!
2. Preparatory work.
Guys, today Masha and Misha came to visit us. They brought with them tasks that they could not handle on their own and asked you to help them. Shall we help Masha and Misha?
(the boy has an envelope with assignments in his hand)
Let's listen to the first task.
The words are printed and posted on the board.
- From the word LIGHT take the second and third letters - BE
- From the word UZh take the consonant letter - Ж
- In the word RASPBERRY, find the second syllable - LI
- Find repeating consonant letters in the word ROPE - B
- In the word BONE, remove the first letter - ONE
Guys, what word did we come up with: POLITENESS
Well done guys, they helped Masha and Misha complete the task.
What is politeness?
(children's answers)
3. Lesson topic
Politeness is observance of the rules of decency. A polite person means one who observes the rules of decency, is well-mannered and courteous. (slide 1)
Listen to where this word comes from:
One boy didn't like to say thank you, please, excuse me, hello.
“Oh, you’re ignorant,” they told him.
He was very offended and shouted back
No, I'm vezha, vezha, vezha!
Strange word. But in fact it is not strange, but ancient. In the old days, a vezhi was a knowledgeable, knowledgeable, learned person. And “knowledge” meant learning, courtesy. This is where the word “politeness” came from - good behavior, respectfulness.
So the boy was right: there is such a word as “vezha”. Only he could not be called a elder. First he needs to learn to say hello, thank you, please, excuse me and other polite words.
What other magic words do you know?
(Children's answers)
And now Masha and Misha invite you to play the “Give me a word” game. They want you to guess the magic words.
Even a block of ice will melt
From a warm word... (thank you).
The old stump will turn green,
When he hears... (good afternoon).
The boy is polite and developed
He says when we meet... (hello).
When we are scolded for our pranks,
We say... (sorry, please).
Both in France and Denmark
In parting they say... (goodbye).
I met my neighbor Vitya,
The meeting was sad.
On me, he's like a torpedo,
It came from around the corner.
But imagine, in vain from Vitya
I was waiting for the word... (sorry).
Do you think it’s enough to know only polite words to be polite?
(children's answers)
One boy also knew polite words. Listen to a poem about him and tell me, is the boy Vitya polite?
Vitya offended the baby,
But in front of the school in the ranks,
Vitya asks: “Sorry,
I admit my mistake.”
The teacher came to class
He put the magazine on the table.
Next Vitya: “Sorry,
I'm a little late."
The debate has been going on in class for a long time:
Is Vitya polite or not?
Find out about our dispute
And tell us the answer.
Tell me, is Vitya polite? Why?
(children's answers)
In order to be polite you should use magic words as often as possible. These words make your soul feel warmer, more joyful, and lighter. Words contain great power; they can perform miracles, which is why they are called “magic”.
CONCLUSION: The more often you say good words to people, the more often they will say them to you. It is only important to say them sincerely, from the heart.
Guys, Masha and Misha are wondering what other polite words you know:
When do you greet someone? (Hello, good morning, good afternoon, good evening, good morning, hello.)
When do we say goodbye to someone?(Goodbye, farewell, all the best, all the best, good night, good luck. You can say goodbye to a friend.)
If you turn to someone with a request?(Please, be kind, be kind, please allow me, thank you.)
When do we apologize to someone?(I'm sorry, I'm sorry; I'm sorry, please; I beg your pardon.)
Well done, you said so many polite words.
Masha and Misha have two friends, Alyosha, who is polite, and Dunno, who is not. At the beginning, they will tell a story about a polite boy, and you guys must guess what kind of polite words Alyosha used. ”
4. Consolidation.
- One day Alyosha Kryuchkov was riding on a bus. He sat down by the window and began to look at the street with pleasure. At the next stop, a woman got on the bus with a child in her arms. Alyosha stood up and told her “…………..”.
- The woman was also polite and said to Alyosha: “………………….”
- Suddenly the bus stopped unexpectedly. Alyosha could not hold on to the handrail and fell on the man standing in front. The man wanted to get angry and told Alyosha that he had to hold on, but Alyosha quickly told him: “…………”
- And the man smiled and answered: “Nothing, it happens. You didn’t hurt yourself?”
Well done boys. Now I am sure that in such situations you will act the same as Alyosha.
So you have learned about the polite boy Alyosha, and now we will find out the adventures of Dunno.
1. Dunno met a passerby on the street and shouted: “Tell me, what time is it?” (How many mistakes did Dunno make?)
(children's answers)
- Dunno heard the answer, turned and moved on. (What should he have said to the passerby?)
(children's answers)
- Dunno comes to school in the morning. The teacher is standing at the classroom door. Dunno was delighted, ran up and shouted: “Vera Ivanovna! I watched an interesting film yesterday!”
(children's answers)
4. Dunno runs down the street, sees nothing. He is in a hurry to tell everyone how polite he has become. An old man walks towards him, looking at his feet. Dunno ran into him and pushed him, though accidentally. But the old man became very angry. But then Dunno said something to him, and grandfather stopped getting angry. (What do you think Dunno told him?)
(children's answers)
5. Summing up.
So the lesson has come to an end, let's remember what we talked about.
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