Innovative coaching school. Konstantin Dovlatov - creator of a coaching school, spiritual technology trainer Dovlatov training

Next Generation Coaching
The Online School of Coaching by Konstantin Dovlatov offers a fundamentally new approach - combining classical coaching with therapy and unique proprietary techniques.

Online Coaching School of Konstantin Dovlatov is your real opportunity:

• In a short time, become a highly paid coach - even if today you do not have a special psychological education.
• Quickly and irrevocably get rid of psychological traumas that block cash flow and quality relationships in your life and prevent you from moving forward
• Realize yourself through professional help to other people
• Learn to set big goals and achieve maximum results in all areas of life in the shortest possible time

Online Coaching School provides working tools to achieve any of your goals
By becoming a student of the Konstantin Dovlatov Coaching School, you:

• Remove the restrictions of the current moment that prevent you from moving forward (or even block you and put you into a stupor). These are your internal blocks and injuries. They are the ones who sabotage your success and “help” you quickly merge after courses, trainings and promises to yourself to start a new life
• Transform your personality and destiny. After just 2 months of training, you will become a radically new person: with sparkling eyes, new resources, a high level of energy and ready to ACT. And with an understanding of exactly how to act so that it WORKS
• Build your future in accordance with the true goals of your Soul
• Build a structure for your goals and begin to achieve them right in the learning process. Not small pseudo-goals, but those frighteningly large life tasks that today you are afraid to even dream about
• Become a highly paid coach-therapist. A top-class professional, highly in demand on the market. Remove financial restrictions in your own life and start earning a LOT in your new profession
• Learn to quickly and professionally help yourself and others in difficult life situations: financial crises, problems in relationships, family, business, career, health. You will master effective applied psychotechniques that will always be “at your fingertips” to quickly solve many problems
• Change your environment. Find like-minded people. People who will approve and support you

SpoilerTarget"> Spoiler: How will the classes be held?

Classes will take place:

• Classes in online format (webinars) and recorded
  - 3 times a week. Duration - from 1.5 to 3 hours each
• Practical tasks
  - 4 hours a week. Conducted in pairs and triples. 2 hours - as a coach, 2 hours - as a client.
• Live online sessions with Konstantin Dovlatov: feedback and answers to questions on the material covered
  – 1 time per week
• Colloquium
  - 1 time per month
• Interim certification
  - in the learning process. By the time you complete your training, you must achieve the minimum passing score to receive admission to the exams.
• Exam
  - at the end of training
• Practice
  - Mandatory final part of the training. Students are allowed to practice based on the results of passing exams. During the internship, you work with clients online under the supervision of curators. This is a unique opportunity to gain practical skills and enhance your results at the Coaching School.

SpoilerTarget"> Spoiler: Training program

• The foundation of classical coaching. New theories of modern coaching.
• Working with goals. Removing obstacles on the way to the goal
• Hellinger constellations (basic principles)
• Metaphorical Processing (Symbolic Modeling)
• Coaching on Metaphorical Maps

Coaching + therapy
A system of step-by-step movement towards a goal using classical coaching and in-depth study of internal obstacles that prevent you from moving forward. The unique know-how of Konstantin Dovlatov, which has no analogues in terms of effectiveness and stability of the results obtained.

Strategic coaching
Elaboration of tactical aspects, internal attitudes and successful strategies to achieve goals in any area of ​​life.

Tactical coaching
How to replace old, habitual actions that always return you to where you started with new ones that lead to the desired results.

Ability Coaching
How to work on increasing your memory capacity, multitasking, concentration, and sometimes just your brainpower. We think that ability is something innate. This is wrong.
Ability coaching determines which areas of life are sagging due to the “lack” of innate abilities. The methods of this direction in coaching develop absolutely any abilities that you need. There are no restrictions.

Resource Coaching
“Resources are things that quickly run out: energy, health, youth.” This is an illusion. Resources are inexhaustible. It’s just that the strategy of self-destruction is deeply embedded in you. If you lose strength, burn out, cannot keep up with the rhythm of life - this is a strategy of self-destruction. This is a dense and difficult-to-remove strategy.
But resource coaching allows you to dissolve this tendency towards self-destruction and revive your natural passion for life.

State coaching
States are the emotional background of your life: joy, inspiration, love - or apathy, melancholy, hopelessness.
State coaching allows you to choose and change any state of your choice. At work - one attitude, at home with children - another, in business negotiations - a third. After state coaching, you are no longer a hostage to your own and other people’s emotions, you quickly switch to any situation. Personal efficiency increases by 200%.

Life coaching
The art of living happily. There is no one average recipe for “happiness for all.” Life coaching reveals exactly where your personal happiness lies. And happiness becomes your reality.

Energy coaching
Systematic and thorough work to restore your energy at all levels. Removing energy ties, including to former partners and deceased relatives.
Complexes for working with the physical body. Practices for regenerating physical health.

Spiritual coaching
Revival of the power of the Soul and Spirit. Even the most powerful techniques will not help if the Spirit is weakened, and the cats are scratching at the Soul.
Spiritual coaching strengthens the power of the Spirit and sets you up for dialogue with your own Soul. Coaching techniques heal deep emotional traumas and experiences. You turn into a Spiritual Leader for the people around you. Become whole, calm and balanced.

Organizational Coaching Basics
Coaching for small businesses. Ideal for top management and entrepreneurs. Prevents 90% of mistakes made in financial and people management. Business processes no longer take a lot of time. Revenue is growing. The staff is motivated. You have time to live.

Applied psychology
You can't attach theory to business. Therefore, the school studies the most advanced psychotechniques for practical application. You will be able not only to “speak correctly,” but also to really help yourself, your loved ones and clients, if you are a coach or psychologist. The school's arsenal contains more than 20 psychotechnics.

Konstantin Dovlatov

• Professional psychologist, founder of the Online Coaching School
• One of the most effective and sought-after coaches in Russia
• Trainer for working with Metaphorical cards
• He taught more than 10,000 people methods for solving “unsolvable” problems in business, finance, relationships, and health.
• In 6 months he increased his income 50 times (participants of his trainings on average achieve a 2-5 times increase in cash flow)

Hidden content.

The organizational position is vacant

A huge number of books and Internet resources are devoted to the currently popular topics of self-knowledge and self-development. However, in the array of information it is not so easy to find truly valuable materials and recommendations that can help in solving specific problems.

Konstantin Dovlatov is an experienced psychologist who has developed many programs and practices that can quickly and effectively improve the life of every person in a number of areas.

Projects of K. Dovlatov

The most famous and effective programs that Konstantin Dovlatov offers his clients:
- “100 days of transformation” - an online course focused on the development of a person’s personal qualities, leading to a change in attitude towards oneself and one’s life. Through the training of certain skills as a result of completing daily tasks, the client learns to manage life events, gradually gaining energy, joy, freedom and success.
- “MAXIMUM LIFE” - a 30-day intensive program for comprehensive improvement of various areas of life and achieving set goals by eliminating psychological barriers, restoring internal balance, regulating relationships with the opposite sex, and removing “money blocks.”
- “Spiritual Integration” is the author’s technology, which is implemented in the form of trainings, ensuring rapid spiritual growth and development of abilities, discovery of hidden resources and opportunities for their use.

Life creators club

Another project created by Konstantin Dovlatov is the “Life Creators Club”. Registration on the club website gives you the opportunity to communicate with like-minded people, study information presented in the public domain, perform meditations and exercises, participate in online webinars, thematic marathons and flash mobs. Membership in the club, the obligatory condition of which is the payment of monthly fees, provides access to an even greater number of Internet resources.

Coaching school of Konstantin Dovlatov

K. Dovlatov invites those who want to master the coaching profession, which is in demand in the modern world (that is, to become a person who helps clients achieve various professional and life goals), to his online coaching school.

The program will be useful to various categories of participants:
- for those who already work as coaches - to become a highly qualified professional who can effectively assist people who find themselves in difficult life situations;
- for those who are just planning to get into coaching - to become a specialist in this matter in a fairly short period of time, master the methods and techniques of professionally helping people and realize themselves in this direction;
- for those who have not yet set themselves certain life goals, but are dissatisfied with the current situation - remove limiting beliefs, open the flow of resources, learn to set goals and achieve them, that is, become a coach for yourself and a harmonious person capable of helping others.

In general, Konstantin Dovlatov’s coaching school is intensive, focused work on oneself for 8 months in a team of like-minded people and under the supervision of a curator, which involves studying a large amount of theoretical material and active practice.

Distinctive features of K. Dovlatov’s projects

Konstantin Dovlatov is one of the highest paid Russian coaches and trainers; participation in each of his programs costs a lot of money.

Projects are distinguished by a systematic approach: to solve specific problems of clients, the psychologist selects only the most effective and working methods, and synthesizes the best available technologies from other authors.

Main features of K. Dovlatov’s programs and practices:
- first of all, work is being done on the internal mental attitude, on eliminating negative blocks that prevent the achievement of ambitious goals in various areas;
- a lot of attention is paid to the development of the client’s personal qualities, revealing his potential;
- to achieve positive changes, the client needs to determine his true desires and aspirations in order to make the path to the goal uncomplicated and enjoyable;
- preference is given to radical methods that allow you to get the desired results quickly and without rollbacks.

Subjects of courses and trainings

Konstantin Dovlatov, as a developer of trainings and courses, an organizer of events and a creator of video tutorials, is surprisingly productive.

Many of his programs and courses are aimed at personal transformation, they help to let go of the past, erase its negative experiences, gain confidence in yourself and your strengths, develop intuition, learn to concentrate and relax, and increase motivation.

The main areas that K. Dovlatov’s projects are focused on:
- building harmonious family relationships (focus on family values, correct relationships with spouses, children and close relatives);
- health promotion (awareness and elimination of the causes of diseases, well-being management, healthy quality sleep, anti-stress programs, back health);
- success in business and financial sphere (effective communication, increased income).

Slavinsky's techniques, constellations, RPT, work with metaphorical cards - these are just a few of the psychotherapeutic and psychological techniques that Konstantin Dovlatov practices.

Reviews about projects

There are quite a lot of reviews about Konstantin Dovlatov and his unique techniques, the vast majority of which are positive. Valuable feedback from those who completed the trainings allows us to conclude that most clients are grateful to K. Dovlatov for the positive changes in their lives. For some, the trainings they completed helped them gain peace of mind and confidence, get rid of various kinds of prejudices and anxiety; for others, they helped them find their place in life, achieve success, increase personal effectiveness and increase income. Many people say “thank you” to the psychologist for the techniques of self-acceptance, for the noticeable improvement in family relationships, and for the new quality of life.

Among those who have completed the courses, there are also those who are dissatisfied with the results and have not noticed any improvements in their lives after undergoing expensive training.

Konstantin Dovlatov: biography

Konstantin Nikolaevich Dovlatov was born in Moscow in 1965. He graduated from high school in the city of Baku, Azerbaijan SSR. He graduated from the Moscow Institute of Electronic Technology (now the National Research University MIET) in the city of Zelenograd, where he studied at the Faculty of Electronics and Computer Technologies.

I worked as a programmer for a long time. Like every extraordinary person, during a midlife crisis I felt the need for change. A big role in choosing a new profession was played by his passion for kundalini yoga, which Konstantin Dovlatov has been practicing since 2000. Having first become a yoga instructor, he began to actively study and practice psychology. I took many advanced training courses and mastered a large number of techniques. As a result, he became one of the most sought-after specialists.

Konstantin Dovlatov, whose personal life was successful, is married to Elmira Safiullina and has a daughter. The wife is both a friend and colleague of the psychologist; she is a trainer and coach on his team. The couple conduct joint seminars and trainings on the topic of successful family relationships.

Achievements of K. Dovlatov

To date, Konstantin Dovlatov:
- is a member of the All-Russian Professional Psychotherapeutic League (OPPL);
- trainer in psycho-energy-acupuncture therapy (PEAT) - one of the most effective techniques of Zivorad Slavinsky;
- trainer in support point therapy (RPT) - the famous technology of Simon Rose;
- Kriya yoga trainer, trainer and instructor in kundalini yoga;
- working on a dissertation for the degree of candidate of psychological sciences, dedicated to the topic of synthesis of RPT and metaphorical maps;
- author of the book “Business. Laws that are visible only from the height of success,” written in the unusual form of a textbook-novel and recently published by the AST publishing house.

Feedback from a student of the School of Coaching - Anna Kashilova 4 min. 39 sec.

Anna began her journey three years before participating in the Coaching School. She wanted to learn how to interact with the world correctly. After studying at school, Anna’s services began to be in demand: they buy coaching and consultations from her for such money that before she would not have dared to say their price.

Feedback from a student of the School of Coaching - Maria Sibiryakova 1 min. 55 sec.

Maria came to the Coaching School by accident. She is not a coach or a psychologist. Maria is a candidate of sciences, teacher and educator. I never had any parallels with coaching. When Maria's institute closed, this became a new point of growth for her. She decided that she deserved much more than working for pennies.

Feedback from a student of the School of Coaching - Natalia Pavlusik 4 min. 2 sec.

Natalya is already a professional coach, so studying at Konstantin Dovlatov’s school was not part of her plans. However, an inner voice said that you simply need to attend classes with a famous trainer in order to gain new knowledge and techniques, learn new tricks and secrets.

Feedback from a student of the School of Coaching - Olga Sherry 4 min.

Olga worked as a journalist for more than 10 years, and before participating in the coaching school, she was seriously depressed. Olga came to work through her problems and wrote a list of her wishes. Having found him some time later, Olga realized that all these dreams had come true, and now she needed to plan more extensive and lofty goals.

• About the intensive

On September 23, the fifth stream of training at the Konstantin Dovlatov Coaching School starts.

Studying at school will help you determine what you need and begin to move towards your true goals.

Coaching School is your unique opportunity:

• Irreversibly and quickly get rid of psychological traumas that block cash flow and quality relationships;
• In a minimum period of time, turn into a highly paid coach, even if you do not have a special psychological education;
• Learn to set big goals on your own and achieve maximum results in all areas of life.

Konstantin Dovlatov’s coaching method combines therapy and classical coaching. Thanks to coaching, you determine your own system of goals and build it, and with the help of therapy, you remove internal restrictions, those obstacles that blocked your further movement.

Maximum effective integration. A combination of classical coaching, therapy and modern proprietary techniques.

Time- and money-saving online format. Study the course from anywhere in the world. All you need is a computer or laptop and an Internet connection.

Professional mentoring support throughout the course and upon its completion (opportunity to participate in a closed Club).

Real practice and gaining experience. Practice your coaching skills on real-life requests, rather than just studying theory. Already from the 1st block of the online course, you begin practical work with classmates or mentors.

Deep study of yourself. Each material contains tasks so that you can work through your problems and internal barriers on your own or with the help of a coach.

Total support: team spirit and community of like-minded people! Participate in group chats and discussions, find associates and friends around the world.

Jun 20

“Fate was not fate,” said ancient astrologers. “If only it could be changed.” Today we will learn about what fate is, whether it can be changed and whether it can be lived at different levels, together with our guest, psychologist and psychotherapist Konstantin Dovlatov. Good afternoon, Konstantin.

Good afternoon, Mark, good afternoon, listeners.

Before asking questions, I would like to address the TV viewers and say that today we will have an unusual broadcast format. Today we will not voice the questions that we received from you.

It was quite an extensive list. I gave it to Konstantin Dovlatov, and, looking at him, Konstantin said that instead he would give some general answer. I will give the floor to Konstantin, he will comment on how he will answer today’s questions.

The situation is as follows: Mark sent me about 14 pages with questions, 99% of which were “I have a problem, explain to me how to get out of it.”

It is completely useless to explain how to get out of the problem. The point is that you need to understand how you created this problem for yourself.

Today I will try to tell you how we act to make a problem become a problem. And where you really need to look when it seems to you that there is no way out. There is always a way out! And most often not alone. This is what we will talk about today.

From programmers to astrologers

And my first question, Konstantin: how did astrology appear in your practice as a psychologist-psychotherapist? How did you even start using it, from when and, most importantly, how long have you been using astrology and where did you learn this art?

I started studying astrology in 1989, that is, quite a long time ago. I managed to meet the masters of that era. I started learning in a very trivial way: I was a programmer - a very ignorant one, completely on the computer - and my friends became interested in astrology.

I thought that this was pseudoscience, that they were doing some kind of nonsense. When they got to compiling cosmograms and building houses... And then it was done manually, computers were not very popular, and there weren’t very many programs.

I looked at their torment, at their fuss with thick books of ephemeris, attempts at linear approximation of points, calculations. And he does it alone - he gets the same results. He does the second one - on the same date he gets different results. Third - third.

I said: “Guys, you’re suffering from bullshit.” And, after spending a couple of months, I wrote them an astrological program. At first, after two days, we got a program where you simply enter data - and it draws a horoscope with all aspects, with all matters.

What data are you entering? Ephemeris for one day, for the second day - she approximates it herself. Then, after scratching my head, I went to Leninka, dug up several methods for calculating ephemeris and, in fact, programmed them. It turned out pretty good.

To be honest, I was fascinated by this issue for quite a long time. And we managed to achieve very good data. That is, the Chebyshev polynomial with approximately 800 coefficients was able to describe the movement of planets with an accuracy of fractions of a second.

There were problems only with transuranic ones - but there is not really a need for special accuracy. It is unlikely that anyone will consider the revolution of Pluto.

Well, perhaps! Tell me, what was the name of this program?

I personally have not heard of this one, but I think it was very popular.

It was still in DOS format, I did not transfer it to Windows. I think you weren’t very interested in DOS programs.

I even used them! I remember that time.

After the guys, having received the instrument, began to study... not so much forecasting, but rather astropsychology - I became interested, because they quite well fell into the psychotypes of those to whom their psychotype was explained.

It became interesting and I decided to learn. I went to Pavel Globa and took a course. I realized that I don’t want to study anymore. Because everything was the same in the books. In books - traditionally faster.

I bought a bunch of literature, mastered some predictive techniques, became familiar with horary astrology, all kinds of synastry, various invocations, primary, secondary, tertiary progressions and others like them. Moreover, it was necessary to understand this in order to integrate it into the program.

Astrology helped me a lot, because I sold programs for more than three years - and made a very good living from it. That is, even in those hungry times of 1990, I got 250-300 dollars.

There was enough for an apartment, enough for life - just from the sale of the program. Accordingly, astrology did not become a great love. But some basic knowledge remains.

Not long ago, my wife went to study the “Formula of the Soul” from Astrogor. And she actively began to count everyone. And, looking at her attempts, I realized that, in principle, astrology should also be used in the practice of psychotherapy.

Why? Most people come and start demanding strange things. The strange thing is... There is such a good series - “Doctor House”.

Yes, sure.

Disgusting from a psychological point of view, but there is one wonderful phrase: “Everyone lies.” When a client comes with his request, he lies. He lies very specifically.

He has a problem, he cannot recognize it - and he comes up with ways to disguise this problem. That is, the conditional task or problem with which he came is never primary. It is secondary, tertiary and, in general, it is just a trick for the mind. She allows him to consciously suffer and try to resolve the issue.

But, traditionally, if you try to solve an issue in the wrong way, it will not be resolved. And when it cannot be solved in one way, a person comes to the second method. If he doesn’t decide on the second, he comes to the third. But not where the cause itself is, the root of the problem.

In fact, if you look at the horoscope, you can say with a fairly high degree of reliability (at least based on the same synastry, or transits, progressions) which direction to dig in general.

When you use this data, it's easy enough to figure out why. People rarely recognize it as the main reason. But for some reason, when you heal her, he feels at ease and at ease.

I certainly prefer art to craft. Astrology in this perspective acts precisely as a craft.

You need a computer, you need specific steps to tell a person: “Dear girl, you want to get married - you don’t need to get married. You need to go to another country and work there, for example, organizing show business. And then everything will work out for you. The husband will appear nearby. He won’t be a husband - he will be a cohabitant, a common-law husband. But it will happen."

A path through many lives

It's better and more interesting to see. That is, to look into fate, to see the branches of fate. And explain to her where her attempt to persist and achieve what she wants will lead. And where will the attempt to follow the call of the heart, the call of the soul lead?

By the way, about fate. This is where my central question that I have been preparing arises. In your opinion, what is fate? What is it and where is it packaged, where does it exist?

The question is very capacious. Very multi-level. You can answer from different sides. Like any multidimensional issue, it will have to be considered from different angles. Fate is a fiction. She doesn't exist.

Let's start from the stove. We live more than one life. We come, gain experience, and leave. And the soul, being multi-incarnated, builds its own line of gaining experience, a line of evolution.

She comes for another experience to go through the limitations that she has set for herself. Which she earned in one way or another in one or another previous incarnation.

Unfortunately, the experiences the soul receives inevitably affect its physiology, let's call it that. The soul can tear, the soul can break off, the soul can divide, the soul can invest in someone, in something.

One way or another, having gone through these experiences, she begins to sincerely believe that she can gain some experience in one and only way.

For example: yesterday I finished a seminar that lasted 17 days. Very deep, they worked there with all their hearts. At one of the sessions, a girl comes out and says that she has problems with the country, with the territory. She cannot move to another country.

More precisely, she cannot stay in the country where she comes from, she wants to go to another. But her parents, who are doing well, don’t want to go there. She does not feel able to let her parents go, because there is no life without them.

But at the same time, my husband needs to go to Moscow. She needs to be with her husband. She is simply torn in half, she does not know how to act. In general, it solves a situation that is unsolvable.

I look at her incarnation, which led to this situation - we just know how to do it all there, I teach it. The incarnation is very interesting.

She was the favorite servant of some high church hierarch. And, being a highly spiritual person, she enjoyed the very opportunity of serving this high rank.

And when there was an attempt on the hierarch’s life, she covered herself (in that incarnation she was a man) for her master. And she died in ecstasy that she could serve him.

And now she serves. She realized that this is the only way to show love, high love. Her soul remembered such an experience. And now she serves her husband, she serves her parents, she serves her children.

She is delighted by this opportunity. But this does not solve her problems. The soul came in order to receive another way.

I heard you correctly that fate is a certain experience, a certain path...

I'll tell you now. You just need to show examples, otherwise it won’t be clear what I’m talking about. When we removed the posthumous decision from her - the decision to enjoy through service - a field of possibilities suddenly opened up for her.

What attracted her most was the opportunity to simply be sunshine. Just decorate the life of your husband and your children and show high fortunes. And she has high fortune! The girl is spiritually and intellectually developed.

So: the question is, did I change her fate? No. Because according to fate, she was destined to become such a sun.

But! Those attitudes, those decisions that her soul made, forced her to go astray. Go somewhere off to the side, get very lost.

The more we wander, the stronger the pressure that the soul puts on us so that we return back to the path of experience that it wants to receive.

The only energy

We need experience. But experience is not just experience. Most people believe that experience is living through some state. There is experience of betrayal, pain, melancholy, exile, loneliness - in general, we invent a lot of things for ourselves.

But the soul does not need these experiences for nothing. She needs a slightly different experience - a way out of the state.

You can fall into loneliness - learn to get out of it. When you learned to go out - hallelujah, you did the right thing. You have mastered this practice.

You are left without money, you are in poverty. You can sit in poverty for a long time - more than one life! But your soul requires that you not just learn to live on three pennies. And I learned to get out of a beggarly state into a developed, rich state. In any situation.

Why? Because by doing this you make yourself more developed. You increase the amount of love that surrounds you.

In fact, in this world there is only one energy... I, of course, am greatly exaggerating, but you will understand the essence. This is Love.

When there is more love, we expand. Our area of ​​influence is expanding, our health is improving, and our relationships with other people are improving. People who come into contact with us begin to expand too. Progress in everything! When you act with love, you make progress in what you do.

What you told me - that you started communicating with people not through the Internet, but in person - it simply allowed you to receive and give the love that you have, that your followers experience, let's call them that.

When the exchange process takes place, everyone has more. The result is synergy. When love becomes less, we begin to experience its opposite - fear. We're shrinking. There are fewer of us, we act less, we are not visible. Nothing remains.

Love does not need us to sit deep in unhappiness, mired in it up to our ears. She needs us to find a way to expand. Stop suffering and start loving. Start showing your good qualities.

Even Castaneda wrote: the path of a warrior is in love. A warrior chooses the path where there is more love.

If we return to the questions that the listeners asked... For example: I can’t accept my mother-in-law, she drinks my blood, eats my brain. If you are in the position of “I am a poor, unhappy, wretched person, tortured by life and Narzan” - then yes. Then the mother-in-law drinks the brain. If you go into the position of “what does she want?” - it will turn out to be a very paradoxical thing.

She wants you and her son to be better. Only! And she does it the best she can. What can she do? She can give advice, help - but this help must be accepted.

And if a woman, instead of protecting her ego and thinking that she is the smartest... There are no smartest, but those who think that they are the smartest annoy us, who are really the smartest - there is a pun.

If, instead of protecting her ego, she simply asks herself the question, “What good is the mother-in-law trying to do with this behavior?” and let her - the mother-in-law will simply triumph and begin to actively help.

The situation does not break anyone. The situation doesn't care who you are or what you are like. It just happens. And the way we treat it makes us either people who take advantage of the situation, or people who are broken by the situation.

Still, I am trying to return to the question of fate. What is this?

So, the soul came for a task. The soul came for experience. She has a minimum set of experiences that she wants to gain.

If a person says: “Yes!”, he lifts his cap and begins to receive these experiences... And not just the experience of living in a situation, but the experience of getting out of them. He turns on his consciousness, he asks himself where there is more love.

He begins to increase his level, begins to take advantage of every situation - he gets one destiny. A fate ideal for this incarnation. And those who have learned to do this, who are initially highly developed - they succeed.

Fate - a sentence or an opportunity?

I won't say that the ideal destiny is easy. Never! Because with each level of development you receive more and more complex experiences through which you must go, in which you must show love, expand, master, and learn to manage them.

Problems with fate begin when a person says: “No, no, no, I won’t go into this experience. I’ll lie here on the side and wait it out.” This is where the difficulties begin.

The soul says: “Yes, dear. You've got something wrong. Let me beat you up a little so that you come back.” The person says: “No, no, no, it hurts, but I endure.”

"OK then. Will you endure it like this?” “It hurts a lot, Mister Dragon, it hurts especially like this. But I will endure.” “Okay, how about this?” “Unbearable - but I still won’t go anywhere.”

We have no destiny. We have an opportunity - and we use it or don’t use it. When we are born, we are born at a special time, the soul chooses the time.

The coolest thing happens when you communicate with your soul and realize that... This is exactly the train “Moscow - Vladivostok”. It is precisely the most inconvenient time for conception. But somehow they locked themselves in a toilet somewhere in the parking lot at two o'clock in the afternoon and still conceived a child! At the right point at the right time.

The soul had to twist very hard to do this. And then they separated like ships at sea. But! The soul needed this mother. And it is precisely such a gene pool with precisely such a load from the father’s family.

That's why she brought these people along. Why he went to Vladivostok - he still doesn’t understand. She also may not understand why she went there. But in fact - in order to conceive.

That is, it turns out that there are still certain reference points in a person’s life that are fatalistic, inevitable, and written down?

Certainly. Birth is inevitable. Death is abominable.

Are there any points in life that you consider fateful and from which you cannot escape?

Everything is just like that?

Yes, definitely.

What are these dots?

And this kahal is distributed in such a way that the greatest enemies are in the family of the soul. Just an agreement: you will be my enemy so that I can gain this or that experience. And I will try to provide you with a different experience.

Beloved - same story. This is not our first life together. And somehow we help or hinder each other. In general, we give experiments.

And by mutual agreement, there are several reference points in the life of each person - maybe a couple, maybe two dozen. Which you really need to go through - but it’s not a fact that you can go through them only in one state.

There will be an event. But how you will live it, from which side you will enter it, is unknown.

You can enter the event in a state of mega resources and come out victorious. You can approach this event in the state of a completely crushed person - and this event will simply roll you under the asphalt.

Whether you will pass it or not is unknown. But you set this test for yourself. You agreed on it. Then the only question is: what trajectory will you take to approach it? And this depends on how you realize your potential.

Life on the sky map

The moment of conception, the moment of birth are laid down for a reason. This is an opportunity. The very opportunity that will make a person dance. This is his given.

And to say that squares are bad, opposition is terrible, and trines are wonderful... Generally speaking, this is hardly true. Trines, squares, oppositions are nothing more than energy. And depending on how you feel, you experience this energy differently.

When you are at the lowest level of development, at the lowest vibrational level, the square, yes, it is realized in the form of a series of most unpleasant actions. Who are trying to break your head and guide you on the right path.

When you are at a high vibrational level, the square is simply the energy of action. Nothing else, activity.

The trine does not give activity. A trine at a high level gives acceptance and almost automatic resolution of some issues. What is there to do? It all works out that way.

And when it’s a square, you already need to think, communicate, and apply something from your arsenal.

As I understand it, in general your attitude towards fate is that it is a fiction, that it does not exist. But at the same time you say that there are inevitable points that cannot be changed; you can go through them in different ways. Where is fate?

You cannot change the act of their occurrence. But at the same time, how you will live them depends on you. Can this be called fate? Don't know.

It’s just that for some this point will be a place of divorce, and for others a place to earn a billion dollars. And this can happen for the same person.

And at the same time it remains within the framework of a single astrological symbolism.

That is, roughly speaking, an event in the fourth house can be an event related to real estate or land. Or maybe with dad - the death of dad. Or maybe inflammation in the sternum area.

That is, some astrological symbolism remains for these events.

Astrological symbolism shows only one thing: what energy interacts with what. When we, having a certain supply of energy, certain characteristics of energy...

In fact, when we are born, we make a cast of a certain state of the world that was when we were born. And we continue with this cast.

Somewhere the energy intensifies, somewhere it weakens. And when we, staying here, where our specific fourth house is in a specific sign - and transit Mars is now entering there. And it stands, for example, in a square to natal Saturn.

Naturally, we begin to have certain energies. And since these energies resonate with issues of family and health, the question arises of what we will do with this energy. If we do nothing, it results in the simplest way. For example, during an event.

We just pull them up, we need to put the energy somewhere. No other way. The only question is where will we take it?

Then there are ways to redistribute it. I actively use two. The first method is solarium. Everyone has probably heard that the moment the sun returns to the same degree, minute, second where it was at the moment of birth, you begin a new start of the cast. A cast for this year.

It cannot be said that it clogs the natal chart, but it modulates it strongly. You can simply select a point on the earth’s surface that will best suit your goals.

By the way, tell us about your experience when you foresaw from astrological calculations that something was waiting for you. That is, I saw the inevitability of these points. And you celebrated your birthday in another country - and what happened? Did these dots disappear?

No, the dots don’t disappear, they remain. But, for example, if you look at my last solarium, to be honest, I don’t remember the details, because I looked, decided and forgot. Why bother your head with what will happen anyway?

There is a rather intense aspect of Saturn, Mercury, Venus, and the Sun. The question arose: if I continue to do nothing, in what event areas will this spill over? I twisted it this way and that.

A point has been found on Earth when the energy of these tense aspects will work on the tenth house, the ninth house, the first house and the second. The point was far away. It was a town on the border of the United States and Mexico, a certain El Paso.

Went there to celebrate my birthday. Why shouldn't we bulls fly to El Paso?

Wonderful!

I understand that even if I hadn’t flown there, nothing fatal would have happened. But if I can spend some money and reduce some complexity...

To transfer them, for example, from situational problems that may arise with the health of parents, in relationships with a spouse, in matters of creativity... I’d rather transfer them to work and structuring my company.

The company didn't find it enough. I have established structural processes, I am now implementing them. Some run away in horror, others clap their hands in delight.

Something for which there was no energy before... Because energy is not limitless, if you send it too much into creativity, there is not enough for control. Now the issues of organizing the company's structural divisions are in full swing. The energy for this appeared.

Swim against the tide?

And I was surprised how it works. The second time I was completely shocked when I predicted the free choice of a certain young man who did not know about him at all. I told him when he would make a choice, on what date and which one.

After that, I began to conduct an experiment in which my colleagues participated... I am a physicist by training, my physicist friends got together, and we created such a thing. The prediction was sealed in an envelope to eliminate the placebo effect.

And what was predicted happened. To convince everyone that there was no secret game. And in the end, no matter how many times I tried to make predictions later, they converged very accurately.

This led me to the conclusion that people are in a state of sleep. And some stream inside consciousness carries them somewhere. Then I began to talk about this flow, about these energies that lead a person to different places, as about some kind of destiny.

How fatalistic are these currents and this fate? For 90% of people, fate...

I would say for 100.

For 100%?

For ninety-nine and nine in period.

That is, there is only a small percentage of people who, in principle, are able to change something in their lives?

Any person can transform. Anyone can change something - or everything - in their life. The question is whether he has enough motivation.

The fact is that energy, if not dealt with consciously, if not transferred into higher forms, will lead to obvious predictable results.

The question is one thing: when pressure starts to come on you, how do you react. If you react like an ordinary person of an average level of consciousness and shrink, you become a pebble in the path of the flow. This stream inevitably begins to drag you along. The flow doesn't give you a chance to escape. You got into a rut, and along the rut you started to roll.

If, seeing complexity, you expand towards it, become bigger - you can move into another stream. Launch this flow in a completely different direction so that it affects other aspects of your life.

This requires consciousness. Requires the ability to predict the results of one's actions. It requires the ability to open your heart towards someone.

Why do you think such a small percentage of people - 1% or less - are able, as you say, to transform, to meet circumstances consciously? That is what I call working with your destiny. Why such a small percentage of people?

Is there a reason for this, a reason? Any thoughts on this topic?

Eat. The food pyramid is common. There is a rule in social psychology. If you take 100 individuals of any type - it doesn’t matter, people, animals - and give them the same task, they will become stratified very quickly.

For those who are more talented (about 6%). The average psychology of the average person says that as soon as you encountered a more talented individual, you devalued yourself. Once you devalue yourself, you are unable to compete.

Of these 6%, 2% stand out and subordinate everything else to themselves. Next you can look at the distribution of money on the planet. 2% of people have 98%. The remaining 98% use 2%. Guess which part is who.

If we take this 2%, for example, and separate them, then the same situation occurs. Delamination occurs instantly. The one who was cool against the backdrop of the middle peasants becomes an absolute nonentity against the backdrop of those 2% who stood out again.

So the same percentage remains the same?

The percentage remains the same. So whatever we do, there is an overall level of balance. Humanity inevitably adheres to the level of balance that the planet has.

And here a question arises, which I once addressed to Levin and our other famous astrologers. The question is simple: does a person have indications at birth that he belongs to the same 2% of people in the average society or not?

Some people talk about the core of personality, others talk about a certain internal sun that exists in the cosmogram and this can be calculated.

Why do I ask? I'm observing an interesting thing. From a huge number of astrologers I hear the same phrase: I could become a millionaire, but there are no indications in my natal chart. I could change my life, but there are no indicators in my natal chart that I will somehow transform.

Some even ask: are there these indicators that show that I will become a saint, jump out, live a completely different life, etc.

What is your opinion about these indicators? Do they exist? Is there predestination?

Because in fact, this is what the guys from the Third Reich were doing. They tried to understand whether there is a genetic predisposition to becoming masters of their lives.

I will give you a situation as an answer. It is more like a parable, it was told by Harv Eker. He had clients - twins. Same genetic code. The difference in the time of birth is probably a few minutes, hardly more than twenty.

You can, of course, say that during these 20 minutes the ascendant went somewhere else - but this is rather a tale for the poor. If, of course, some planet is exactly on the ascendant, and one was born - she has this planet in the first house, and the second - in the twelfth. But more likely no than yes. I can't verify this, but this is an unlikely case.

They had a tough upbringing process. They grew up to be completely different people. They began to be asked... The father was a tyrant, an alcoholic, and so on.

The first one, who lived very poorly, was tormented by the question “Why do you live like this?” said “How else can I live with such a father?”

The second, who was very successful, said: “How else can I live with such a father?”

The father is the same, the impact is the same. He beat both of them equally. But one made a choice in favor of being a victim - and her father became the reason for her sacrifice.

And the other decided that she would be stronger, she would cope. And her father became the influence that forced her to become strong and learn to cope.

The same impact on genetically identical people - why the different impact? It is a matter of how the soul deals with the experience.

Soul in an egg

This is where a counter question arises in this case. After all, such things as the father figure and the formation of the psyche occur in early childhood. It’s not like at 15-16 years old - at 2 or 3 years old, primary formation begins.

But children have too small frontal lobes to make conscious choices about how to feel about being a father.

Let's discuss this topic. Share your vision.

The frontal lobes have nothing to do with it. Level of perception, oddly enough, when you do regressive hypnosis, it turns out that you can draw conclusions perfectly even at the level of the egg. Even unfertilized.

And conclusions are also drawn at the sperm level. These findings greatly influence further development. The fertilization process itself is such a set of conclusions!

There are so many conclusions that are imprinted into the biological matrix, directly into molecules and primary cells, that then they simply turn into some kind of conclusions of consciousness and a set of ideological attitudes. They are simply voiced.

The conclusions that, as I understand it, the soul draws? Or who?

The soul draws conclusions. And at the level of the egg it is imprinted into biology

That is, initially we proceed from the fact that the soul can draw a conclusion.

The egg has awareness. She even has her own awareness, even without a soul.

And here I, as a physicist, have a question: how was this measured and seen? These were people who worked with this, so enlightened that they saw through the matter of the world the essence of souls and so on, and investigated this question?

You don't have to be enlightened to do this. In regression hypnosis there are many opportunities to ask around. Every person can see another soul - you don’t need to be enlightened for this either. This is a very simple technical task. Communicate with another soul - too.

It's achievable. Yes, this is understandable: a person interviews a person. That is, there is a serious personal factor - neither change nor write down. But when you start looking...

The main indicator for me is that when you change this decision, a person begins to change. The changes are noticeable.

At the biological level: long-term diseases, even congenital ones, disappear. Changes at the psychological level. They come and say: why have I been worrying about it for so many years? The question was not worth a damn!

Can you tell us about some cases where a person came and had such and such a problem. And with the help of regressive hypnosis, you found out that the sperm or egg made the wrong conclusions.

And now, being a healthy, conscious person, I changed something in my intentions. And this is the result.

Okay, sure. Professional startupper, more than 30 startups in 12 years, created and carefully sold - not a single one was brought to profit. He had come to terms with this a long time ago. He has been doing this for 12 years now.

But still, the question arose in the conversation: why can’t I ever make the company profitable and just get money from it? Why should I spin like a squirrel in a wheel? I'm running out of resources, I'm already tired as a dog, how much can I do? I’m almost in my fifties, I don’t want any more. I want meaningfulness, some kind of awareness.

Let's start looking at the situation. Just the situation of the sperm. The sperm, when fertilizing the egg, goes through a very interesting path.

If we compare the size of a sperm and the path it travels and transpose it to the size of a person, then it should run about three hundred kilometers in about two days.

Over rough terrain. With a lot of enemies. Under chemical attack at the beginning - that is, when the sperm enters the vagina, the acidic environment of the vagina kills more than 90% of the sperm.

Literally over the corpses of their brothers, they make their way into the uterus, dodging very nimble leukocytes that kill them in large numbers. They are making their way to an unknown destination, without a compass.

Someone dies, naturally. One of the two fallopian tubes is selected. And, if the egg at that moment has not yet given the signal “I’m here,” they must forget themselves in hibernation.

And wait, pretending to be rags, without shining from the rest of the epithelium, so that they are not destroyed by the immune system, until he gives a signal.

And when, having gone through all these tests, he suddenly receives a chemical signal that the egg is ready for fertilization, he rushes towards it. Sees something huge. Swims up.

For a long time with his companions, he dissolves the shell - because the outer shell is very thick, the egg has two shells. Penetrates to the inner shell.

Then tentacles reach out to him, grab him, pull his head inside, and bite off his tail. His head explodes. His life ends.

For many, this moment is perceived as wonderful. Because he fulfilled his purpose, he moved on to the next stage.

And for some, this moment is perceived as “I was killed.” And if a person has this, he cannot finish anything he starts.

He has a big fat program that as soon as I get the result, it’s death. There is no result of life abroad. Therefore, approaching the border, he backs down, sells the business and starts over.

And what was the treatment? Persuasion?

No, we just removed this emotional charge. About the fact that “I died.” And he went into the “I’ve moved to the next level” phase. The latest startup has not been a startup for two years now; it is already turning it into a profit.

Life in "God Mode"

If I heard correctly, I got the impression that in the concept that you voice, the basis of mental trauma, which then affects a person’s life and destiny, lies in the prenatal period. And the action of postnatal, childhood...

They are everywhere.

So it's equivalent?

Yes. There are traumas that come with incarnation - and they are very strong. There are posthumous incarnational solutions. There are interesting decisions that a soul made before incarnating that make its life unbearable.

You know, when we go somewhere and are full of strength, it seems that we can solve everything with our left heel. And when we find ourselves inside the process - honest mother, why did I burden myself with so many tasks! There are postnatal injuries that have a very strong impact.

In any case, this is a single chain. We don’t just come to this family, we don’t just come to these parents. We create some prenatal incidents for a reason.

The soul needs to receive a platform from which it will begin to push off and develop. If they come to the state of “everything is fine” - the body is healthy, there are no injuries - “I don’t understand, what is there to play here?” There is only one game on this planet - Doom.

Counter-Strike. Or something similar.

Yes. And when you come here in “god mode” - what to play? You run, look into the maze and understand where you are going. They make fun of you - it doesn’t bother you. Your shot is fatal to anyone. Boring! Just boring.

Tell me, in the case of that startup, did you not watch the life of this person in his youth? Because the classic version of why startups fail is a parental or maternal prohibition on independence, the feeling of guilt that accompanies it, and so on.

It’s just possible that it will be closer than this story with cutting off the tail of a spermatozoon - a classic psychotrauma.

This also works inevitably. The only question is what consequences arise, in how many areas the consequences arise. You can truly heal a mother's inhibition of independence. And the person will also begin to achieve results.

But, firstly, why did this ban arise? Also a question. Why this mother? Also a question. And then you can also poke around - in incarnations, and in prenatal, and in postnatal.

But when you heal the wrong thing, the wrong reason, it doesn’t last long. You healed him, he took upon himself the right to be himself - and even remained himself for two years, for example. Then he found himself a woman who quickly proved to him that being yourself is harmful, you have to be the way she wants to see yourself.

And the funny thing is that when a person finds such a person, he breathes a sigh of relief. If we have not removed the initial trauma, then everything that follows only leads to a certain time-limited result.

In my practice, I noticed an interesting thing: the natal chart is actually a reflection of our psychological traumas.

Definitely.

Some kind of route sheet, I would say.

Psychotraumatic capabilities, weak points.

Yes, let's call it that.

Let's just say it's something we have to go through.

We say almost the same thing in different terms.

The route sheet is absolutely correct.

I just don’t like the word “should”; it causes certain dissociations in me. I have a question in this regard: how does the path arise between prenatal trauma, prenatal choice (conscious or unconscious) of the soul - something that happens before birth, certain charges, certain vectors of movement...

Which as a result lead to the fact that a small child is born, he has not yet received injuries from mom and dad...

Come on!

I’m not talking about the prenatal period now, I’m talking about traumas like alienation in childhood because my mother abandoned me... These are the classic options.

The trauma of alienation can be perceived in completely different ways and can cause different states.

I want to ask how the relationship is built between prenatal experience (let's call it that way, in the general case) and the fact that it comes out, sees, primary traumas, which are diagnosed by classical psychology and psychotherapy as the first traumas inflicted by parents in relation to an already born child .

Well look, Mark. The mother left the baby in the crib and went to the kitchen, drinking tea and listening to music. The child woke up, screaming - no one heard him. Injury?

For some - yes.

That's it. Moreover, if this is a trauma, then it can be a trauma of abandonment, a trauma of rejection. It could be betrayal. Three different ways a person reacts to the same factor.

And this will cause different developments. The question arises: why is there either no injury, or one of three types?

Just those same charged vectors?

Those same charged vectors. Where do these charged vectors come from?

First, the soul needs to have certain experiences. That is why this family was chosen.

Secondly, the child works like a sponge. He takes on everything maternal, which is dangerous for his survival. If the mother is sad, the child takes away her sadness. If the mother is on the verge of a breakdown, the child takes away her stress. Because she will lose her temper and throw him away.

He needs to do everything to survive. To do this, he absorbs its problems. And in fact, the state in which the mother is in a very serious percentage - I don’t know to what extent - creates ways for the child to react for the rest of his life.

Why in all kinds of archaic societies - wild, incomprehensible, never civilized - as soon as a woman becomes pregnant, she immediately has a separate house? Everything should be beautiful there, and not a single good soul, without bringing himself into a smiling state of consciousness, should approach this house.

And there is an interesting relationship here. After all, the natal chart is classic - if we are talking about the birth horoscope - it actually shows those very future traumas that will unfold after birth...

Well, not injuries. Subtle moments.

Let's call these subtle points. Events that are deeply imprinted...

Not even events.

What is this?

These are precisely predispositions to the fact that some energy will manifest itself in a certain way. And depending on how a person approached it, this energy can cause an event.

Could be somehow used for something else. Maybe, if a person rises to the highest level of vibration, it can be used to benefit himself and benefit the world. And it will not be traumatic - it will be an opportunity that a person uses.

Looking hopefully to the skies

This raises the question of how the influence of planets and life events are related? Planets exist somewhere far away. It is obvious that gravitational, strong, weak and others have nothing to do with the processes of the body.

The question arises: how and through what do planets influence the human psyche, the unconscious? They force you to make a choice, to be in the right place at the right time. Or turn on an internal magnet that will attract or shape external circumstances.

What is the path from A to Z? Understanding this path can lift the veil of mystery about why the birth horoscope is the way it is. Why a baby is drawn to a certain time and place to take its first breath.

What do you think about this relationship between top and bottom?

The relationship between the top and the bottom, it seems to me, is quite direct. Hermes Trismegistus, in general, was a smart comrade in formulating his laws. I have not researched this issue. I simply answered it for myself and put it aside.

From my point of view, when we are born, we imprint a hologram into ourselves. A hologram of energy, the current state of the planet - namely the planet, the Earth. We are not the center of the earth. We are just small creatures on its surface.

To be honest, in the body’s energy there is already a special organ responsible for the relationship with the biosphere - the so-called mind of the earth. When a person begins to activate it, he becomes a shaman. He begins to hear the voice of the Earth, the commands that the earth gives. Feel the appropriateness of certain actions and your connectedness with this world.

And when there is connectivity, there is opportunity for interaction. So, whether we like it or not, we are a copy of the state of Mother Earth at the time of our birth. And then we run with this cast.

Like a hologram. When you look at a hologram, these are strange stripes, planes in the thickness of the photographic film. For some reason, when illuminated by laser light, they draw a picture. But if you illuminate it with light of a different wavelength, there will be no picture, it falls apart.

But our hologram is not so trivial, not monochrome. It's very colorful. It is multi-layered, it is multidimensional.

We continue to interact with the Earth. And all other planets influence it. They are members of the same family. They are tied to each other. Just like we have the concept of gender. And even ancestors in the seventh generation who were cursed - their curse affects us. Why? Because we are part of the same structure.

One cannot exist without the other, it is impossible. An attempt to remove oneself from the family leads to serious consequences in the fate of this person. You return back to your family - another branch of fate begins.

Well, here we are very united and close. I won't reveal how I look at it, but in general I agree with it, everything happens indirectly.

I have one more question. I understand correctly that the influence on fate occurs in such a way that the planets move, they change something in the composition of the Earth’s atmosphere - or in the Earth’s energy.

What you call the mind of the Earth - as I understand it, is something close to cosmic energy... A certain energetic or mental part of a person subtly senses changes in the composition of the Earth.

He begins to react - and at some point this turns on something inside the person. And this something begins to attract or shape events. Am I understanding the sequence correctly?

About Yes. The only thing I would say is that the soul has a task to gain experience. And she actively begins to form a corridor of reality from the available resource to gain this experience.

If we are talking about planets, Neptune took a certain position in relation to the Earth, and Neptune’s energy suddenly became insufficient. Accordingly, a person cannot fantasize; he has become weak with issues of self-display. But there is a lot, for example, of Martian energy.

Fine! The richer you are, the happier you are. The soul raked up the energy of action, called on other people who also had an abundance of energy of action - and they directed it in the right direction. Ooh - beautiful!

If there was a lot of Neptune's energy, there would be someone with marijuana, who would let it puff, and quietly hum something into his ears. And the person would have launched a program that entered, bypassing the filters of perception, and he would have gone to do the same.

It doesn't matter which way. The main thing is what we want to get and how quickly we can do it.

Psychological Feng Shui and Magic

In your practice, when you work with clients, you probably use astrology.

Why do I ask: among astrologers there is a very fashionable practice of changing the course of events - the so-called astromagic.

This is actually surrounding yourself and your immediate mental field with certain things - gadgets, as I often call them.

Feng Shui is the same.

Psychological feng shui, yes. Objects affect the psyche, the unconscious - through certain symbols, colors, smells, etc., give back signals, this forces you to redirect the flow of energy and change something.

Do you use something similar in practice? Or do you limit yourself to classic psychotherapeutic techniques?

My wife loves to use Feng Shui and actively implements it in the house. For me it’s... The girl thinks it works - and for God’s sake. An extra 2-3% of assistance will not be superfluous. But if I sit on my butt straight, nothing will change.

This is a very important point, I would highlight it with a red line.

Moreover. When you begin to use astromagic, excluding your own mental, spiritual work, it begins to greatly destroy a person.

Tell us more about this. How exactly does this happen?

A person needs to gain, for example, the experience of the same betrayal. Who wants to be sold? Nobody. He sees what awaits him, and he begins to sublimate this experience.

He begins to create situations where he will be betrayed in small ways so that he will not be betrayed in a big way. Or he uses amulets that repel those who might betray him and attract those who would be loyal to him.

As a result, instead of resolving the issue on a simple, but tangible level - and resolving this issue for himself - he avoided it.

Fine! The thrown boomerang comes back - but with even more energy. He arrives in such a form when a small attribute can no longer cope.

And thanks to the astromagus: he says that we need to do some kind of ritual, go somewhere, so that this will pass. Great, we went for it.

We used solarium, we used feng shui, we used astromagic. And everything went easily and naturally, with a splash of edge. It seems to have passed.

But it went to the third round. When it arrives in such a form that God forbid it can withstand it. What initially could have been just a test can become fatal.

Do you use astrology for yourself for business purposes? To develop business...

No, I don't see the point.

That is, when starting a new project, you don’t consult the stars about the timing, don’t pay attention to some retrograde Mercury, which most astrologers are afraid of, and other symbols?

When I try to pay attention to this, it usually ends up being a mess. Every time I do something, the state is “this must begin and cannot be postponed.” And it usually turns out that this is the optimal time.

So you come from the so-called call of the body?

More like a call from the soul. If I start planning my future, it usually turns out to be very tight. And when they ask me “How do you get so much done? You have such a schedule, you don’t even have time to get sick”... And there’s no need!

I suggest using the classic way of working with superstitions. As my wife says, I am a very superstitious person. All my superstitions are either about money or about love.

You used the phrase “they are afraid.” And to be afraid is to shrink. This is losing opportunities. Mercury retrograde brings its own opportunities. Use them!

Absolutely right. As I tell astrologers who are afraid of Mercury retrograde, start your business during this period in such a way that Mercury retrograde rules the seventh house, then your clients will return to you.

How to search where it is dark?

I am sure that a huge number of our listeners, having heard about the different levels of living destiny, will undoubtedly come to the question: how exactly can I rise to the next level?

How exactly can I live my destiny in different ways? I understand that this is a very broad question, but still, perhaps there are some specific recommendations.

The trick is this: when a person finds himself in a painful situation, he loses awareness. The lower it falls in vibration level, the lower the level of consciousness and the higher the automatism.

Accordingly, if we want to remove automatisms and move to a high level of living, we must remove those very painful situations in life that come from the past, that program and predetermine us.

For this you can and should do something other than psychotherapy, unfortunately. Classic psychotherapy will not help. She's looking in the wrong direction. We have to do something more.

And what is it?

I called my approach “Spiritual Integration”, this is a way by which you can move to a state of consciousness where any problem becomes a resource.

From this state we inspect our old lost resources, which we call problems, traumas.

It is clear that it is difficult to inspect your entire life; you need to find the most important things. Actually, this is what I teach: how to find what triggers all this trash. What we actually find is never in the field of awareness.

I have a favorite joke about psychotherapy. It’s gotten to my clients’ teeth, but still.

Night. Street. Flashlight. There's a man under the lantern. Looking for something. The second one comes by and says: “buddy, what are you looking for?” “Yes, I lost my keys.” "Can I help you?". "Yeah." “Where did you lose them?” "There". “Wait, I lost it there, but are you looking for it here? For what?". "It's light here."

And when we engage in psychotherapy, we begin to look where there is light - but not where the keys are. It's dark and scary there, you don't want to look there.

And if a classical psychologist begins to unravel the chain, he teaches a person to gradually go into semi-dark areas and search there. And then - to the area where he really lost. It is too long.

My students learn to immediately point their finger at the place where it was lost: “The key is here. Let’s quickly light it up, raise the keys” - and the problem disappears. I don't mind crawling under a lamppost.

Do I understand correctly that the problem disappears almost instantly - and the result is permanent?

The problem disappears, energy comes, and the person changes his self-identity. He begins to feel like a different person. It integrates the freed resource into itself.

And how sustainable is this result, this new sensation?

Sustainably.

Does he need any additional strengthening exercises?

Well, of course it is required.

How does consolidation usually happen?

I’m just asking: how do you live with this resource? And tell me three actions that you will do in the near future to confirm your ownership of this resource.

Roughly speaking: “Oh, I love everyone.” Who are the three people you confess your unconditional love for? Whom you couldn’t stand, but now you can communicate with them. One two Three. Here's the phone number - call.

That is, consolidation occurs at the level of actions that are repeated for how long and how often?

At least do it the first two or three times. This is already enough for a pattern to develop, and the person ticks off that the pattern is successful.

The pain of recovery

From the point of view of classical psychotherapy, any trauma is not important, when it was introduced, it has a physiological feature. These are neural connections that connect in a certain way.

They cause our hypothalamus to produce neuropeptides, a kind of emotional cocktail that we call resentment or the need to be a victim, and so on.

And all this is ultimately fixed at the cellular level in the form of a chemical habit of these cells to consume these particular cocktails.

When we make some sudden movements, we break axon connections, introduce the body and cells to a new cocktail, with new emotions - love, affection, and so on - that a person may have never experienced before.

Firstly, a person may experience a serious shock. This is where painful sensations arise during psychotherapy. And secondly, the cells, having survived this shock and, perhaps, not coping with it, sending them into a state of severe psychosomatics, will sooner or later require the old cocktail again. Old familiar emotions.

And they will plunge a person into the old state until the habit of being in a new cocktail forces the cells to give birth to a new generation of cells that are resistant to old emotions and require new ones.

This period usually occurs over several tens of days; the exact figure varies in different studies. But these are months that require serious reformatting of cells.

This is accompanied by a rather uncomfortable feeling, because it is a matter of chemical starvation, it is like withdrawal from a drug addict.

For me, a very important question: is there a way to get around this period as comfortably, environmentally friendly, without crying, without breakdown, without psychosomatic phenomena. And so that the result is permanent.

What happens to your clients during the first surge, when they have these insights, new insights, new feelings? How painful is it for them?

And the second question: the period of adaptation to the new state. Comfortable or uncomfortable? And how long does it last?

Regarding the adaptation period: everyone is different. I try to keep the client under observation for a couple more months - more precisely, under support. I structure my work with clients so that they always have follow-up.

For his “Spiritual Integration” training of the first level, for example, he did a six-month post-training, where people must undergo a certain mutual practice. This practice is supportive for them.

If you take another training, “Coaching School”, which lasts eight months, there is a continuous transformation. By the end of the eighth month, we get completely different people than those who came to it. Coaching is called spiritual school.

How painless is it?

Of course it's painful. There are two aspects: biological and social. Biological aspect. There is such an interesting thing, German New Medicine, GNM. It explains the process of disease in a very holistic way.

It contains the concept of biological conflict. This is any event that occurs abruptly, acutely and is experienced alone. If a person has not lived it alone, this is no longer a biological conflict.

A biological conflict triggers the body's reaction to a conflict situation. And the body begins to either build up tissue to cope - especially glandular tissue, and then we talk about tumors in the glands. Either dissolves the fabric to provide a larger pipe.

If I can’t digest it, fine, we’ll dissolve the stomach lining. If I can’t let it go, fine, we’ll dissolve the intestinal mucosa so that it goes away.

The most interesting thing is that at the moment when the biological conflict ends, it can end with the stimulus disappearing from sight, or some kind of hunger will end, food will be necessary. Or the war waged by the state will end.

For example, when a state is at war - why, for example, there was an outbreak of tuberculosis after the First World War - all countries were at war. Everyone was in a strong conflict and in danger of not surviving. The tension was strong, they felt that they could die at any moment.

Stress? Definitely. Conflict? Definitely. And then there is peace. In the lungs, when there is not enough air, tissue begins to grow. The tissue has grown - a little everywhere, in every alviole.

Tuberculosis bacteria grew along with the tissue, which the body uses to devour excess tissue when there is no longer a need.

Peace has come. Tuberculosis bacilli began to eat this excess tissue. The person began to cough and cough. He understands that he has contracted tuberculosis and from now on he will not live. This starts a new conflict, and he dies of tuberculosis.

If he had not been checked, if he had not known that tuberculosis existed, then after a couple of months the hemoptysis would have ended and the person would have been healthy again.

Therefore, the conscious comrades died at that moment, and the people in the villages coughed, coughed, and lived. He just didn't know he was sick. I just thought he felt bad.

And after every conflict there is a recovery phase. And we, in fact, consider the recovery phase to be a disease. We do not notice the disease in the conflict phase - we are concerned about other issues, we simply wither and die.

But as soon as we relax, we recover, we recover. We sleep a lot, eat a lot, feel weak, and have a high temperature. In general, all the signs of the disease. Exactly what you say - the body requires the same cocktail to which it is accustomed. "Withdrawal." This is not withdrawal. This is restoration.

But since a person feels bad, he begins to look for standard ways to make himself feel good again. Throw yourself into old emotions, old actions - and again go into the conflict phase.

Because he felt good in the conflict phase. He didn’t know that he felt bad, he felt in good shape, was terribly tense, and was losing strength. And he believed that this was the norm. And he wants to go back to this normal. He creates a conflict for himself again in order to return to a conditional norm.

Returns to the usual tense state.

And he just had to go through the recovery phase. The recovery phase, if it is not a protracted conflict, lasts as long as the conflict itself. The problem is complicated because you can get sick for a long time.

This is where classical medicine comes into play, suppressing the recovery phase and leaving just a tumor. Then it is encapsulated - but this is before the first examination.

When they examine you, they will say, “You have cancer!” Why is oncology so developed now? Diagnosis has improved. What was previously simply dissolved by the body is now a problem. “You have cancer, you will die.” New conflict. Which there is no one to talk to.

The heavy burden of the family

What can be done to shorten the recovery phase? We need to find out the cause of the conflict. The real reason.

It's getting ridiculous! Man has this law: everything secret will become clear. But if you don’t let the secret out loud, then you begin to show it in your habits, children begin to live it through situations, and grandchildren begin to live it through fate. I'm not kidding.

When you build a genogram, the hair on everyone’s head just moves: both the one who builds and the one who is being built. There is a feeling of total predetermination of everything that happens in a person’s life.

During this period he lives like his uncle, expelled from the family, who was expelled from the family for going to prison. This one is like an aunt who suffered from cancer and was generally evil. But this one lives like his great-grandfather, and so on.

And it turns out, where is my destiny? Where is my life? I still live for someone. I live their complexities. Lord, why did you assign me to a family where there are so many difficulties? He came himself!

Because by going through these difficulties, you have the opportunity to grow, gain experience, and learn to manage this experience.

But while we are not aware, while we live and endure - we do not solve the issue, but endure - we do not get results. Well, okay, second year, third year, fifth incarnation, twentieth incarnation with one question - well, finally decide, learn! Solve the question.

They have already given us the Internet, they have already given us the information business, people who do this - you can already find them at arm’s length, at the distance of YouTube! Well, learn already! No, I need a magic kick that will make me a millionaire.

I came across this, yes.

Almost every first! And those who are not the first come and say: “Thank you, you changed my life, thanks to you life became different. I'm taking action." The others come and whine.

For those who come and whine - is there a recipe for the magic kick they ask for?

I remember that in such cases Radislav Gandapas proposed organizing an army, as he called it - turning life into a little hell. For example, a person cannot earn money, while he has a small source of income - he is deprived of all sources of income, and a new life begins. Are there any interesting ways?

The method that Radislav proposed - I am very familiar with it, but with all my love for it, the method is only suitable for a very narrow circle of people. There are only two psychotypes - epileptic and hyperthymic - that are able to cope with this level of stress. The rest are broken. And they don’t get up anymore.

Therefore, with the topic of who is whining, we need to act more simply. They need to be given tasks that they can handle. A classic of the genre: for ten tasks, six should be easy, three should be doable, and one should be difficult. And they begin to develop.

Next comes individual coaching, as it is called now. You look at how a person lives, what he copes with, and give him those tasks that he can do, so that he begins to feel that he can. That they didn't let him go.

Finally he had parents who finally took responsibility for him. Yes, he paid for it. Well, such good paid parents.

I will not mention the names of some infobizs who... You come to the webinar and understand that they didn’t just pour a bucket of shit on you, they accused you of everything possible, humiliated you as much as they could - only so that you try to say “I’m not like that! I will prove it by buying your program! But the conversion is high.

Great way.

Unacceptable.

School of Mindfulness

Tell us about your school, what you do.

There is a “Coaching School”, 8 months. I won't say it's expensive, but not cheap. In the early stages - 18 thousand per month. Some charge more in a month than I charge in eight.

The school is built on the principle of helping anyone who wants, is ready to do something, go all this way. These are lectures on coaching, on psychotherapy - and on the psychotherapy that I use, it differs from the classical one.

Here, of course, psychotherapists will start whistling and throwing rotten tomatoes - but that’s their problem. I know that I can help a person solve his problem in one session.

Moreover, a session is 2 minutes of work and 58 minutes of conversation, just so that a person understands what he paid for.

In conversations, he answers questions himself simply due to the state in which I am. Ideal coaching is when I am in a state where the person just comes, says “Thank you, I understand” and leaves. This happens all the time.

I really like coaching one question: being in a state, you ask a person a question about the most important thing that he does not look at. A person is first jammed, then pinned, so changes occur.

You can achieve this in 8 months of training. They receive three lectures a week, two to three hours long. They have at least 4 hours of pair practice. There are curators who check the records of each practice.

Over the course of 8 months, the guys go through several dozen ways of working with clients, putting them through their paces.

Naturally, for a reason. The first thing we do is they write eight tasks for eight months. Most of these problems are solved in the second. They write eight new problems - and again in the second month they are solved.

When they reach the final, I ask: what are your tasks? “Yes, there’s a little thing there! What kind of person was I to give a damn about this nonsense? What troubled me for two years, I solved in three weeks.” But for this we need to act. And we give practice.

It is clear that the result is specialists who combine psychotherapy and coaching. It is clear what is called a coaching school - but if I call it a school of psychotherapy, I will need accreditation of the educational institution. Therefore, I have not yet created an institute, I can call it that.

They do coaching and study for a couple of months. Psychotherapy, accordingly, is still five months away. And very different.

They learn to work on metaphorical cards, and master conversational techniques, and techniques of intention, silent transformation of everything and everyone - that's welcome. Plus, it’s now the eighth month - family therapy has been added.

Wonderful. Our traditional part of the program is rewarding people who asked the most interesting questions. We did not accept questions into the studio, but still.

We have two questions. One is the winner and will be announced a little later. There is one question that Konstantin Dovlatov decided to answer anyway.

Question from Tatyana: “Hello, Konstantin. They say that we ourselves build our future with our thoughts and actions. How I could want a disabled child, I just can’t understand. Why did I receive such a difficult, difficult task? What can you change in your brain so that the child recovers and a miracle happens?”

The situation is as follows: I often came across mothers of disabled children, and in almost all cases this connection between the child and the mother was not the first life.

The child teaches the mother love. Just love. Regardless of what he is like, regardless of genetics, what’s wrong with his body, what’s wrong with his brain - unconditional love. And selfless service.

And when the mother does not try to correct the child, this is important! - does not try to make it the norm, does not try to force him to learn something that he cannot learn, but accepts it one hundred percent - at this moment the child begins to gradually recover.

People with cerebral palsy get out of their wheelchairs, people with cerebral palsy begin to behave more meaningfully, and so on. Speech begins to emerge.

First of all, this is working with parents. The parent was so unprepared to open his heart for many incarnations in a row that fate said: well, let’s take an extreme method.

Many times I was faced with the fact that a girl did not learn to communicate with her father and could not accept him. She ran away from her father. I found myself a man. I didn’t learn to communicate with a man, because I still had problems with my father, and somehow I also rejected the man.

She gives birth to a child - a boy. And one that she cannot reject. He physically cannot live without her, and she is forced to live with him all his life and learn to accept men.

And until she does this, he does not leave her even if he is physically healthy. This could be an over-aged mother's boy, who is 50-60 years old and is still with his mother. And as soon as she lets him go, he begins his own life.

That is, we look not at a specific life, but through a broader frame.

We finally come to the question of the winner. Konstantin, maybe you will read the question and announce the name of the winner?

The winner is Vyacheslav. Question: “There is an opinion that a high level of so-called spiritual development removes the obligation to fulfill destiny’s programs. That is, natal comes under the control of a higher order. Do you agree with this? How do you understand this pattern? What is spiritual development, from your point of view?

I spent most of my talk answering this question. The only question is what spiritual development is. This is the ability to perceive all situations with love.

When you can love absolutely everything - bingo, you have reached almost the maximum that you can realize in a given society. Because higher levels are already asocial, non-social.

Great answer! We congratulate Vyacheslav and give him a wonderful mug from our radio station.

Konstantin, thank you for coming to our studio today, it was a wonderful conversation. He discovered many interesting facets of the vision of the essence and structure of fate. I am sure this will be useful to many of our listeners.

The main thing is to implement. Act, act, guys! Thanks for the invitation.

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